Is it wrong that I don’t date nor Am I attracted to Mexicans ,African Americans?

  • Is it wrong that I don’t date nor Am I attracted to Mexicans ,African Americans?

    Posted by Azure700 on October 30, 2021 at 11:13 pm

    Is it wrong that I don’t date nor Am I attracted to Mexicans , African Americans or Asians?

    I find myself not interested in talking to them or engaging with them

    BlackFitSenior replied 1 week, 1 day ago 13 Members · 31 Replies
  • 31 Replies
  • BigBanana

    Member
    October 31, 2021 at 2:00 am

    🧐

    • Azure700

      Member
      October 31, 2021 at 2:43 am

      ???? What does that emoji mean?

  • CuriousJockAZ

    Member
    November 1, 2021 at 12:57 pm

    Not wanting to date is one thing, since we are all attracted to whatever we are attracted to.

    But not wanting to take part in talking to them or engaging with them? That’s another issue.

    Did you show your “Racist” card at the door?

  • HndsmKansan

    Member
    December 15, 2021 at 11:44 pm

    I’ve found that being inflexible about such things as this certainly works to your detriment. Every race has men who are hot, grounded, reasonable and can offer a great time. I wouldn’t encourage you not to make it about “race”. We all have types we are attracted to, but don’t limit yourself.

  • ObscureandFuzzy

    Member
    December 30, 2021 at 7:35 pm

    Nope.

  • apparition

    Member
    December 31, 2021 at 5:45 am

    just dont tell anyone

  • relaxingsteve2

    Member
    March 13, 2022 at 1:44 am

    Lol it’s not wrong, very often people are attracted to those that are different then themselves. Example blacks attracted to whites, by the sound of it maybe and I say MAYBE you react to those backgrounds as you do because they look similar to you. What is wrong depends on how you treat them, if you are rude or mean just because of their background that’s WRONG. For now focus on you and what you do like about a person despite their race.

    • Azure700

      Member
      March 19, 2022 at 10:47 am

      @relaxingsteve2 Do you think I look similar to African Americans?

      • relaxingsteve2

        Member
        March 19, 2022 at 2:34 pm

        You’re too focused on looks, yes you have a resemblance to African/Indian backgrounds. You need to focus on being happy with who you are as an entire person before worrying about dating.

        • Azure700

          Member
          March 19, 2022 at 10:06 pm

          @relaxingsteve2

          I have Mediterranean/Southern European background, so how do I have a resemblance to African backgrounds?

          • This reply was modified 2 months ago by  Azure700.
          • This reply was modified 2 months ago by  Azure700.
          • apparition

            Member
            March 20, 2022 at 10:45 pm

            based on your tiny picture, which may not be be the best, you have chocolate brown skin, a flat nose, full lips, and smaller ears. further, your hair around your ears, in the small picture reads as tight and curly, IN GENERAL these are traits usually seen in SOME black guys and rarely in say…the average white guy. based on a half inch image of an avatar, you look like a black guy. In other pictures, you may look different…for instance you appear to have green eyes ..which would indicate not being african, and close up your forehead hair is straight but looks like part of your hat small. , but you cant see them without zooming in.

            • This reply was modified 2 months ago by  apparition.
            • Azure700

              Member
              March 21, 2022 at 12:45 pm

              @apparition My nose, lips, and skin color are racially ambiguous features that are found in every race, so how do I look like a Black guy when in that picture so pass as Hispanic, Arabic, Italian, or Indian?

            • apparition

              Member
              March 22, 2022 at 11:30 pm

              In a large picture…sure there are other features that say otherwise, but in a avatar sized pic….not so much.

              Let’s play a game. We will post this part of your face on a forum and for every person who guesses a black guy, I get a point, and for everyone who guesses white guy…you get a point. Who do you think would win?

              not that there is anything wrong with the look…the green eyes are quite spectacular imho.

              • This reply was modified 1 month, 4 weeks ago by  apparition.
            • Azure700

              Member
              March 22, 2022 at 11:35 pm

              @apparition My face and skin looks Brown or red. So I could pass as stereotypically Indian, Middle Eastern, Polynesian or Latino.

            • Azure700

              Member
              April 9, 2022 at 12:36 pm

              Is there a reason why you are ignoring my last comments?

            • Azure700

              Member
              April 9, 2022 at 1:00 pm

              @apparition Please don’t engage or reply to my posts or conversations if you can’t keep up with the conversation and respond back.

        • Azure700

          Member
          March 19, 2022 at 10:08 pm

          @relaxingsteve2 Also , did you imply that I am Black by saying I like guys who look different/opposite of me referring to me saying I prefer white guys and using Blacks liking whites as an example?

          • relaxingsteve2

            Member
            March 20, 2022 at 3:22 am

            Originally you asked if it was wrong to not be attracted to or not date Mexicans & African Americans?! I gave a response based on facts of others I’ve noticed and shared opinions of preferences of friends. Where you are concerned it was speculation, it doesn’t mean it applies to you personally for certain. If you’re going to get offended by other’s ideas or suggestions why bother asking the question? Lol

  • Azure700

    Member
    March 18, 2022 at 12:31 am

    What ethnic backgrounds look similar to me?

    • relaxingsteve2

      Member
      March 20, 2022 at 3:12 am

      You asked a question,I’m not judging just giving an opinion.

  • manboynyc

    Member
    March 18, 2022 at 9:48 pm

    Hmmm. So much to unpack here. I feel: Our sexual interests/attractions are one thing… but excluding the opportunity to bond/relate/socialize with people based primarily on culture and skin color is a detriment of character and potentially missed opportunities for you (and them?). I think this is something to consider working on and ‘getting over’. One never knows who one might meet or what other connections one can make through various people regardless of attraction. And… What would you feel about those who wouldn’t want to be social with you based solely on what you look like?

    • BLAK3

      Member
      May 8, 2022 at 11:24 pm

      You don’t get to decide what makes another man’s dick hard.

  • roadbikerob

    Member
    March 23, 2022 at 6:58 am

    Well it is your prerogative about who you want to date and spend your personal life with but at the same token don’t sound so narrow minded and unfriendly about it. We are well aware that you are not attracted to certain types of guys but than probably you should just sit down and analyze yourself and question why you are not attracted to blacks and guys of Spanish origin and what could be the cause of your discomfort and possible distrust. Try not to be so blatant and blunt about it. Honesty is one thing but belligerence is an entirely different story.

    • Azure700

      Member
      March 23, 2022 at 3:19 pm

      I also would never be physically attracted to guys who have had sex or kissed a woman before either

  • BlackFitSenior

    Member
    May 4, 2022 at 10:03 pm

    No, it is not “wrong” to not be attracted to people, regardless of racial demographic. But it technically might be a shame to potentially miss out on good platonic relationships.

    Speaking personally, am not generally attracted to other Blacks physically and culturally. But in the right social circumstances, I can meet people whose appearance may not appeal but whose personality does. Going forward would require being upfront and the other would have to be open to what CAN–and CANNOT be.

  • hotfacials

    Member
    May 8, 2022 at 10:27 pm

    I think this individual needs to communicate more with their inner soul!

  • BLAK3

    Member
    May 8, 2022 at 11:26 pm

    You guys are dealing with an unverified profile who is quite likely a troll.

    • Azure700

      Member
      May 11, 2022 at 1:24 pm

      I am not a troll

      • BLAK3

        Member
        May 11, 2022 at 10:41 pm

        It takes 5 seconds to verify your profile.

  • JimiB

    Member
    May 11, 2022 at 8:19 pm

    How many times are we going to ask this question?

  • BlackFitSenior

    Member
    May 13, 2022 at 4:51 pm

    Azure700 asked “Do you think I look similar to African Americans?”

    You may need to add more (contrasting) photos to your profile. The one you have DOES impress as African.

    Azure700 said: “I have Mediterranean/Southern European background, so how do I have a resemblance to African backgrounds?”

    That region is not far from continental Africa.