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Is it wrong that I don’t date nor Am I attracted to Mexicans ,African Americans?
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Is it wrong that I don’t date nor Am I attracted to Mexicans ,African Americans?
Posted by Azure700 on October 30, 2021 at 11:13 pmIs it wrong that I don’t date nor Am I attracted to Mexicans , African Americans or Asians?
I find myself not interested in talking to them or engaging with them
Azure700 replied 1 year, 11 months ago 13 Members · 32 Replies -
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Not wanting to date is one thing, since we are all attracted to whatever we are attracted to.
But not wanting to take part in talking to them or engaging with them? That’s another issue.
Did you show your “Racist” card at the door?
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I’ve found that being inflexible about such things as this certainly works to your detriment. Every race has men who are hot, grounded, reasonable and can offer a great time. I wouldn’t encourage you not to make it about “race”. We all have types we are attracted to, but don’t limit yourself.
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Hmmm. So much to unpack here. I feel: Our sexual interests/attractions are one thing… but excluding the opportunity to bond/relate/socialize with people based primarily on culture and skin color is a detriment of character and potentially missed opportunities for you (and them?). I think this is something to consider working on and ‘getting over’. One never knows who one might meet or what other connections one can make through various people regardless of attraction. And… What would you feel about those who wouldn’t want to be social with you based solely on what you look like?
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No, it is not “wrong” to not be attracted to people, regardless of racial demographic. But it technically might be a shame to potentially miss out on good platonic relationships.
Speaking personally, am not generally attracted to other Blacks physically and culturally. But in the right social circumstances, I can meet people whose appearance may not appeal but whose personality does. Going forward would require being upfront and the other would have to be open to what CAN–and CANNOT be.
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You guys are dealing with an unverified profile who is quite likely a troll.
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Azure700 asked “Do you think I look similar to African Americans?”
You may need to add more (contrasting) photos to your profile. The one you have DOES impress as African.
Azure700 said: “I have Mediterranean/Southern European background, so how do I have a resemblance to African backgrounds?”
That region is not far from continental Africa.
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How does my profile pic impress as African over Indian, Arab, Latino, etc?
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@relaxingsteve2 Do you think I look similar to African Americans?
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@relaxingsteve2 Also , did you imply that I am Black by saying I like guys who look different/opposite of me referring to me saying I prefer white guys and using Blacks liking whites as an example?
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based on your tiny picture, which may not be be the best, you have chocolate brown skin, a flat nose, full lips, and smaller ears. further, your hair around your ears, in the small picture reads as tight and curly, IN GENERAL these are traits usually seen in SOME black guys and rarely in say…the average white guy. based on a half inch image of an avatar, you look like a black guy. In other pictures, you may look different…for instance you appear to have green eyes ..which would indicate not being african, and close up your forehead hair is straight but looks like part of your hat small. , but you cant see them without zooming in.
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@apparition My nose, lips, and skin color are racially ambiguous features that are found in every race, so how do I look like a Black guy when in that picture so pass as Hispanic, Arabic, Italian, or Indian?
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In a large picture…sure there are other features that say otherwise, but in a avatar sized pic….not so much.
Let’s play a game. We will post this part of your face on a forum and for every person who guesses a black guy, I get a point, and for everyone who guesses white guy…you get a point. Who do you think would win?
not that there is anything wrong with the look…the green eyes are quite spectacular imho.
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@apparition My face and skin looks Brown or red. So I could pass as stereotypically Indian, Middle Eastern, Polynesian or Latino.
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@apparition Please don’t engage or reply to my posts or conversations if you can’t keep up with the conversation and respond back.
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I also would never be physically attracted to guys who have had sex or kissed a woman before either
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