when I got married I had experimented with guys and liked it, but also love being with my wife so I put it all behind me. I was good until the internet came along and made it easy to chat and come into contact with guys like myself. Then I discovered that younger men like older men and that opened another door. I had some fun at times, but was careful just jo and oral. Skype has opened a new door. I can get intimate with a guy online and get my needs met.