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Michigan, USA


Working out and staying strong in mind-body-spirit are my passions. I  am a writer, retired lawyer, and a spiritual mentor. I love to explore life and get to know other guys on the journey to walk shoulder to shoulder and grow.

I am looking for some LTF’s—long term friendships—with buddies who are interested in hanging out online and maybe even getting together once in a while to enjoy life and explore, encourage each other, and have fun–with benefits.

I am married to a wonderful wife (a woman)–who is my soulmate. So, I am not looking to marry you. I want to create some lasting friendships with a few guys who connect intellectually, emotionally, spiritually, and physically.  I call it a “deep male friendship.”

I moderate the RJ Group: Guy’s Simple Wisdom. Check it out here and join if it interests you: https://realjock.com/groups/simple-wisdom-for-guys/

Shoot me an email on RJ if you want to chat and get to know each other.

PS—-you can check out more about me on my website: https://brianplachta.com.

You can also check out my new book: Finding Flow–Spiritual Practices to Reclaim Inner Peace, Balance, and Wholeness on Amazon here:  Finding Flow.

It’s a great day to have a great day, so have a great day!


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Discussions, Friends, Photos, Workout Buddy


Bodybuilding, Crossfit, Cycling, Hiking, Mountain Biking, Swimming, Weightlifting, Yoga