Larry Kramer also said it well: “Yes, sex and love were diferent items when he wanted them in one, and yes, having so much sex made having love impossible…..All I see is guys hurting each other and themselves ….And how to say all this to anyone, when no one is listening, no one wants to hear?”

I strongly suspect many men know this critical distinction. A few, like me, opt for love. I am sad that some men hurt each other while lusting and I only wish that they knew what real love is.