[manboynyc]

Hmmm. So much to unpack here. I feel: Our sexual interests/attractions are one thing… but excluding the opportunity to bond/relate/socialize with people based primarily on culture and skin color is a detriment of character and potentially missed opportunities for you (and them?). I think this is something to consider working on and ‘getting over’. One never knows who one might meet or what other connections one can make through various people regardless of attraction. And… What would you feel about those who wouldn’t want to be social with you based solely on what you look like?