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Will high stress/anxiety totally ruin your ability to orgasm during sex?

i believe so, but i have no concrete proff

It does affect some people that way. Others actually relieve their anxiety by having a lot of sex. I have found that depression can affect your performance as well (if one is depressed the sex drive plummets). In terms of getting an erection high blood pressure and high cholesterol can both have a negative impact.

I'm thinking the only reason I don't get a whole lot out of sex is because I just can't relax (I seriously stress to where I feel I'm gonna pop an artery!)

I guess I'm more irritated that I'm horny as all hell because of the increased workout, but have no real outlet, LOL

Mother Thumb and The Four Daughters will be happy to help you clear up that prostatic congestion, Dood.

You lost me, lol

Look at your right hand.

Look at your thumb.

Look at your other digits.

Eureka!

OH lol... I'm sick of that

I'm talking to a specialist, this is really driving me up the wall!

Dooddddddddddd!

Put an ad on Craigslist and get the Doodster laid. Get some liquor or zanax, and kick back and enjoy. LOL. You'll be o.k. You're thinking about it to much (unless you have a medical condition). Sit, back relax, and let someone blow the shit of out you. Times are tough, Dood, but, you'll manage.

Get yourself a fuck buddy, and practice. It's like typing. Once you learn...

Sheesh.

LOL guys say I'm one hell of a lay, but I seriously have never got off with another person! Drunk, stoned, post-workout, sober, late-night, early morning, break at work, incense, candles, tequila, high/normal/low blood sugar, and with any combination of the previous and no matter the timing, I can't relax. Cholesterol's always been normal and I don't have erection problems (though if my blood sugar drops, mr. winky goes right along with it, LOL)

What's this "need to practice" thing, anyway? I've been active since 16, JESUS! Up until this year I'd be getting laid every few days to weeks, but lately I've just lost interest (five times in the past 12 months...) And oral just doesn't do shit for me, lol...

Always had the problem, don't know for sure what the deal is: maybe I shouldn't be doing four hours of foreplay? (stopping that one helped)
Maybe it's the ADHD pills?
Maybe it's the ADHD?
Maybe it's because I can't relax?
Maybe it's "GOD, no guys around here have muscle"? (I'm the only guy here that works out regularly, lol)

Anywhore *giggle*, what's zanax

Nevermind, I was gonna ask my shrink about getting on that, lol

(will provide an update upon results, LOL)

GABA (gamma-butryic amino acid) is a precursor to serotonin, your brain's natural anti-stress neural transmitter. It works within 20 - 30 minutes. With my depression from the cancer treatment, I use it with my anti-depression drugs and it calms me right down. Within those few minutes, I feeling much better and am able to get motivated to do things.

Anxiety can reduce sex performance, it is relative though, it depends on the amount and the individual.

I suggest meditation, maybe some deep breathing exercises to try and relieve some anxiety.

Here is a new one which is interesting and somewhat effective.
Lick your lips and suck in cold air.

Also mindfulness, think only about what you are doing NOW, don't worry about other things.

I would say stop taking your ADHD medication for a while and try some alternatives. Cranial Sacral Therapy and medtitaion are a good start. Sometimes ADHD stems from an emotional trauma.

right hand? I use my left.

Anxiety and stress can definitely impact sexual performance and desire.

We're all doing doing our part to mentor the doodster (Logan).

Cum Logan Cum!

ROFL. Bless our hearts. Hee hee.

Bitch I just did Tuesday!

But yeah, that was only after INCREASING my adhd meds LOL

Wow... the hurdles you placed in front of getting yourself off are amazing
just let go and say to yourself that it doesn't matter that you have an orgasm or not
it might take one time or it might take one hundred
...just make sure that you have fun

Yeah I'm having no problems now... I tried it again off the meds and the problems came right back--just can't focus and I stress the hell out. I'm back on a higher dosage and things couldn't be better!

Timberoo use lef hand, Chucky use his right. Guess what, I used both hand. I been like that even since I start masturbating and cant change my habit.