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Is there a spot on a guy that can make him shoot his load with out getting hard? I go to this one therapists that I'm very comfortable with so I go naked. I really enjoy his masssages they are deep and a good Sports massage. But when he works on my lower back right above my ass I cum and I;m not even hard. It is the weirdest and greatest feeling ever?..Do you think he knows? does he do it on purpose, he is extremely professional so I really don;t know what to do?
Would love some advice

isnt it just your erotic zone???

but wouldn't I be hard?

you mustnt

dude, If I were giving you a massage and you were naked I would do more than rub your lower back to make you cum.
hmmmmmmmmmmm

I have been a CMT for about 5 years now. I have yet to encounter a client that cums just from rubbing his lower back.

Interesting.

to answer the question: you do not have to be hard to cum. I would bet it's a combo of the pressure of the LMT pressing down on your back and you body then pressing your cock into the table.

I have also done massage professionally and have never heard of this response to lower back work. It may be a combination of the pressure already noted and your individual sensitivity and what you find erotic.

The bigger mystery here to me is how a man can shoot without being hard. Are you sure it wasn't precum?

definitely not precum as it is a huge load...and I really as a whole have not been aprecummer at all

In my training as a massage therapist we discussed and we all believe that massage can be equated to spiritual love making. This reaction is quite normal but very rare and usually occurs in men with whom tend to be hypersexual often these men are also more prone to be able to experience mutliple orgasms! Also, in chinese medicine the kidneys are the storehouses for sexual energy known as "jing". By working on the lower back and using pressure points one can stimulate the flow of this kidney "jing" or sex energy. If your therapist is well trained he should understand this, so don't be too upset about it...wish it was me!!!

I've never cum on the table but have dripped plenty of precum. Have gotten an erection during a massage. I was very embarrassed the first time. My therapist was cool and told me not to worry. He said it meant that I was very relaxed and that was a compliment to him. Now, I get a hard on every time and don't think anything of it. My therapist is very professional and has never touched my dick.

I am a certified Massage therapist - I have worked on young-old, male-female, straight-gay. I treated over 90 guys at the "out games" this past summer in Montreal.

Everyone responds differently to touch. For you it is your lower back and for some it could be thier neck or anywhere else on the body.

I don't want you to think that everyone gets excited during a massage or experiences an orgasm. They don't!

If you and your therapist are comfortable with the situation, then just let it be and enjoy the massage. It is a normal and healthy bodily reaction, so who cares.

Actually he is working on your perineum...the muscle right between your balls and ass. If you try to stop the flow of pee, that is the muscle that you pull up on.

The prostate is right behind this muscle and when I massage it...which I do for those athletes who are ok...(there are often trigger points here...causing pain, etc...so it is therapeutic, not sexual) the athlete will get hard and often cum.

You can also do kegels with this muscle to strength your erection and improve your ejaculatory time. good for ED, also.

I agree with rksportswear. Everyone does respond differrently to touch. Obviously if he is touching an erotic zone like the perineum you may experience an orgasm but that's not on your lower back.

LOL; no, there is no such spot, except maybe on you! Not counting the prostate of course, but that involves a kind of "deep tissue massage" that is beyond my scope of practice...

perineum...the muscle right between your balls and ass.

Prositutes work this area, It is not part of a normal massage.

I like all of the commentary from rksportswear...good wording, I also would like to add that most people enjoy pressure on the sacrum (the lower back area above the gluteal crease). Slow and deep pressure on the sacrum can release endorphines...actual any kind of massage can release endorphines. This kind of thing doesn't surprise me, if I could do this I would have my man make me squirt it any old day of week.

Alas, this is why massage therapist have to lobby so intensely to get massage covered by insurance.