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I think it´s widespread wisdom now that regular jerking-off is good for man´s health.
are you a regular jerker (weather solo or any other way)??
see ya

I've JO'd several times a day since I was about 12. I think it's been good for my health, and kept me much younger looking than most men my age, as I'm about to turn 60.

And wouldn't that make sense? Wouldn't nature want to preserve those males whose sexual activity was active and prolonged? And not favor those who are sexually inactive?

It makes little difference whether the man is straight or gay, whether his sperm ends up on his belly or in a vagina. The beneficial hormones and other chemicals released into the bloodstream by an orgasm are the same, and scientific studies have shown they counter aging and can physically help males in many other ways.

It shouldn't surprise us that Nature would want to reward and preserve the lives of males who are more sexually active than others. Why shouldn't gay men take advantage of this natural selection?

I'm happy to admit that I jerk several times a day on top of having sex with my partner. I just love keeping my pipes cleared.

Everyday...especially after my workouts!!!

has to be at least twice a day

Wow...I feel like the odd one out now.

Maybe once a day, if that. But I think it has to do with other reasons afflicting my life (stress, etc) as well.

I USED to do it a lot, but I also get bored with it sometimes as it can be unfulfilling.

MuscleBudSea saidWow...I feel like the odd one out now.

Maybe once a day, if that. But I think it has to do with other reasons afflicting my life (stress, etc) as well.

I USED to do it a lot, but I also get bored with it sometimes as it can be unfulfilling.

Stress is the Grim Wilter for a man. Aerobics can help reduce the effects of stress in some people. Also taking certain dietary supplements to help with muscle gain, and of course some prescription meds can likewise take the wind out of your libido.

At 32 you're too young for age to be a significant factor by itself. You might try some variety, since you mention boredom, with things you don't normally do. An XXX gay DVD, or attend a hot club where you can smell the testosterone (and perhaps a bit too much cologne) on a crowded Saturday night.

How's The Cuff doing these days in Seattle? Just going in that place on a busy night used to give me blue balls if I didn't hook-up. Aerobics can also bring on the hornies in some guys; a nice 45-minute run around the Arboretum, maybe?

I am in a relationship so the answer is virtually never.

Red_Vespa said

MuscleBudSea saidWow...I feel like the odd one out now.

Maybe once a day, if that. But I think it has to do with other reasons afflicting my life (stress, etc) as well.

I USED to do it a lot, but I also get bored with it sometimes as it can be unfulfilling.

Stress is the Grim Wilter for a man. Aerobics can help reduce the effects of stress in some people. Also taking certain dietary supplements to help with muscle gain, and of course some prescription meds can likewise take the wind out of your libido.

At 32 you're too young for age to be a significant factor by itself. You might try some variety, since you mention boredom, with things you don't normally do. An XXX gay DVD, or attend a hot club where you can smell the testosterone (and perhaps a bit too much cologne) on a crowded Saturday night.

How's The Cuff doing these days in Seattle? Just going in that place on a busy night used to give me blue balls if I didn't hook-up. Aerobics can also bring on the hornies in some guys; a nice 45-minute run around the Arboretum, maybe?

Cuff is great, though I haven't been out in months. I keep meaning to, hoping to do something this weekend!!

I'm one of the odd ones indeed, working out and cardio usually decreases my sex drive, instead of increasing it. I think a lot of it is mental too...I tell myself I"m bored with it, and I kind of just forget about it. But I eat well, workout regularly, etc etc. Just have too much stress me thinks.

Red_Vespa said

MuscleBudSea saidWow...I feel like the odd one out now.

Maybe once a day, if that. But I think it has to do with other reasons afflicting my life (stress, etc) as well.

I USED to do it a lot, but I also get bored with it sometimes as it can be unfulfilling.

Stress is the Grim Wilter for a man. Aerobics can help reduce the effects of stress in some people. Also taking certain dietary supplements to help with muscle gain, and of course some prescription meds can likewise take the wind out of your libido.

At 32 you're too young for age to be a significant factor by itself. You might try some variety, since you mention boredom, with things you don't normally do. An XXX gay DVD, or attend a hot club where you can smell the testosterone (and perhaps a bit too much cologne) on a crowded Saturday night.

How's The Cuff doing these days in Seattle? Just going in that place on a busy night used to give me blue balls if I didn't hook-up. Aerobics can also bring on the hornies in some guys; a nice 45-minute run around the Arboretum, maybe?

Red...
can I just ask, do you write articles for a living
LOL, I love your responses.

i average about 3-4x/day. sometimes more. great way to relieve stress, esp with school these days.

Azstreaker saidI think we know most every dude is doing this at least 3 times a day...no question right????

well i wouldn't say 3 times a day, well.. maybe on my good days, but usually just once a day.

BodyWork4 saidRed...
can I just ask, do you write articles for a living
LOL, I love your responses.

Thank you! But no, I just write for fun, not professionally.

.... I used to indulge in it about every three day - I'd work myself to a SINGLE nut and that'd be it... But recently.. I don't know what it is - may be it's a sexual re-awakening or having been celibate for over 20 months now - I just cannot seem to stop myself at the first nut!!... The weekly recurrence's about the same, but the frequency within each session has easily increased threefold!!..... I'm scared....

Azstreaker saidI think we know most every dude is doing this at least 3 times a day...no question right????

I tend to do it a little more.
Twice with my left hand.
Twice with my right hand.
Then once with both.

usually it's once a night before bed, any more than that means i'm bored and looking for something to do.....

I usually wait for somebody to suck or jack me off. If I'm really horny, I do it myself but its better with another guy, always. So, I usually don't jack off everyday. Sometimes its a week or more...


Wish you would help me!

BeNiHiKoU said.... I used to indulge in it about every three day - I'd work myself to a SINGLE nut and that'd be it... But recently.. I don't know what it is - may be it's a sexual re-awakening or having been celibate for over 20 months now - I just cannot seem to stop myself at the first nut!!... The weekly recurrence's about the same, but the frequency within each session has easily increased threefold!!..... I'm scared....

Just curious, why were you celibate for 20 months?

Koaa2 said

BeNiHiKoU said.... I used to indulge in it about every three day - I'd work myself to a SINGLE nut and that'd be it... But recently.. I don't know what it is - may be it's a sexual re-awakening or having been celibate for over 20 months now - I just cannot seem to stop myself at the first nut!!... The weekly recurrence's about the same, but the frequency within each session has easily increased threefold!!..... I'm scared....

Just curious, why were you celibate for 20 months?

... Like many, I have a 'paradoxical' relationship with sex: it is a topic that I am passionate about - I love and do not refrain from talking about it -, but I find its practice to be rather exhausting and - more often than not - frankly disappointing. In spite of appearances I may project - according to some people- , my actual practical knowledge of the topic is comparatively limited, mostly because I truly have a low sexual drive - I'll always choose a good night of sleep over sex!!. I still struggle with balancing emotions and urges, for I have often lacked the discernment to not mix them in the past - and with disastrous consequences for me.
So after my last 'disastrously-short-lived' relationship - the fifth one over the course of 8 years - I decided that, in that unfunny play called SEX, the time may have come for me to stop wanting to be an 'actor' and instead take a back sit as a 'spectator' and try to learn as much as possible about sex - and about me. So far, celibacy has done me great - it's a killer icebreaker when meeting strangers!!...

not everyday... maybe once or twice a week.

I'm doing it right now.

Did u enjoy yourself alpha?

I think I have sex too much to masturbate. I maybe masturbate twice a week. My partner gets so mad when I do.

LOL alpha

Like almost every day I am doing it right now (why you think I am on this site?). But takes a very long time.. would be fun if someone gave me a hand every now and then (pun intended, feel free to msg me). :-)

not less than once a day haha
but i think its kindda a bad habit
its always good to have a wet dream or to wait till u have a real sex!
haha

KyleBelfast said

Azstreaker saidI think we know most every dude is doing this at least 3 times a day...no question right????

I tend to do it a little more.
Twice with my left hand.
Twice with my right hand.
Then once with both.

I get some help sometimes
Once with my left
Once with my right
Once with both
Once with the help of my guy (with his hands)
And again butthis time with his mouth and then he swallows
Damn hes good