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Is it me or do bottoms get judged more if they hook up, more than tops do. Maybe i am just over thinking this too much .

What do you mean by judged? What rated out of 10? With 1 being rubbish and 10 being bloody bangtastic!

dftwater said Is it me or do bottoms get judged more if they hook up, more than tops do. Maybe i am just over thinking this too much .

eh, if they wanna judge, let'em judge, more important things to worry about then being classed a slut dear.

luc21_83 saidMaybe...maybe it's because it is a greater risk. I don't judge bottoms...I love them Safe bottoms that is.

Bottoms who are not safe about sex can be viewed as careless and self-loathing...is that judgemental of me to say?

Yeah that would be judgmental for you to say because you're not associating any of the responsibility toward any of the bareback tops that play with these "self-loathing" bottoms as you describe it.

Bottoms seem to get judged similarly to how women are judged by men. They're slutty if they sleep around a lot but the top is a stud and is considered to be cool for having mounted many partners.

It's a double standard. It takes two to make a slut out of both the top and the bottom. Any other viewpoint that exonerates a top from being slutty is simply delusional hypocrisy.

muchmorethanmuscle saidBottoms seem to get judged similarly to how women are judged by men. They're slutty if they sleep around a lot but the top is a stud and is considered to be cool for having mounted many partners.

It's a double standard. It takes two to make a slut out of both the top and the bottom. Any other viewpoint that exonerates a top from being slutty is simply delusional hypocrisy.

That is exactly what i meant.

I wasn't aware this was an issue. There are tops and there are bottoms, plus some versatiles like me, and most guys want sex.

I know a slut when I see one, but it has nothing to do with what kind of sex he wants. This concept is new & confusing to me.

dftwater said Is it me or do bottoms get judged more if they hook up, more than tops do. Maybe i am just over thinking this too much .

I have never heard this. If you hear someone do this, you are hearing it from the mouth of an ass and they are best not listened to.

Because I like to bottom and I'm a big guy (referring to when I was 252lb of roided out muscle) I'd get a lot of flack from guys that talked about me in a tone that was less than kind. They'd talk about my sexual repertoire as something that was to be made fun of. But to be honest all it came down to was that they were disappointed that I wasn't the big muscled top they they wanted me to be. True tops that wanted a big guy were surely not talking shit about me. They worshiped me. The problem is there are just so many unhappy bottoms out there that are talking shit.

Well then, allow me, on behalf of butt-sex loving men everywhere, to thank the bottoms of the world for being so giving. Without you there would be a lot more stiff jaws in this world.

Bottoms, I salute you!

MunchingZombie saidBottoms, I salute you!

You turning top dear?

YAY for bottoms, without us, there would be no satisfied tops and any that judge, don't get the action... well, at least not from me!

lilTanker saidYou turning top dear?

I do it all. $20

Just let me get my wallet. With the exchange rate it's cheaper than in town (...said the nun to bishop)

MunchingZombie said

lilTanker saidYou turning top dear?

I do it all. $20

Your very cheap, but ya know, I'd like something with a bit of quality.