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Do you feel attracted to yourself ?
GHoSTa Posts: 574
Sep 03, 2008 8:19 PM GMT
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When I asked that guy "why wouldn't you start working out ?" he said :

I just don't feel connected to it , If I work out I'd probably feel attracted to my own body ..
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So when you look in the mirror ... ?
Fun_n_fit76 Posts: 243
Sep 03, 2008 8:31 PM GMT
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I have my days, yeah. Most time time I don't even think about it though.
SurrealLife Posts: 4394
Sep 03, 2008 8:45 PM GMT
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No I am not my type. I have better things to do then body worship myself! That being said I like looking and feeling good. I find being fit has many benefits, not just how you look in the mirror. Greater energy (mental and physical), a more positive outlook on life, and more time away from the boob tube which seems to be degenerating at an exponential rate. Finally my partner really appreciates my leaner more muscular look. I was a bit chunky when we first met so it was a pleasant surprise for him when I got "ripped" last year (his words not mine).
Sedative Posts: 5407
Sep 03, 2008 8:47 PM GMT
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Sometimes.... when the fogs of inferiority complex clear up enough for me to appreciate what I am and what I see in the mirror. But yeah, rare days.
EricLA Posts: 1134
Sep 04, 2008 12:14 AM GMT
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Maybe back when I was 13 and had totally washboard abs. But, as SurrealLife says above, I'm not my type.
GobB Posts: 756
Sep 04, 2008 12:19 AM GMT
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its bad but yes. i am attracted to me lol.
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Sep 04, 2008 12:20 AM GMT
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I'm attracted to a different "type" than myself, so I'm not attracted to myself... although I recognize that I am the "type" of attractive that some guys (luckily, often guys I go for) are attracted to.
rouxbot Posts: 36
Sep 04, 2008 12:29 AM GMT
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It's really embarrassing but I have "checked someone out" in a store only to realize I was looking at a mirror across the room. So I guess I am, somewhat... Generally end up dating/hooking up with guys that are pretty much my opposite.
brady527 Posts: 332
Sep 04, 2008 12:35 AM GMT
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I like to say that healthy self esteem allows us to say, on occassion, "I deserve better," when looking at even our most loving partner and, "I'd sleep with me," when looking at ourselves in the mirror. If this were playing on a constant loop it would be narcissistic, but having those moments just means having a healthy sense of self, sense of worth, and positive body image. That's my take on these things.

To also answer for myself I would say that after putting on more muscle, I found myself more attractive.
bwg77 Posts: 202
Sep 04, 2008 12:39 AM GMT
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Well, I wouldn't be my first choice but I wouldn't kick myself to the curb either
innerathlete Posts: 500
Sep 04, 2008 12:47 AM GMT
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Like others here, I am not really my own type. But, as bad as this might sound, I definitely find myself a lot more attractive now that I have put on some muscle.
Gigadu Posts: 1135
Sep 04, 2008 1:14 AM GMT
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rasiya saidIt's really embarrassing but I have "checked someone out" in a store only to realize I was looking at a mirror across the room. So I guess I am, somewhat... Generally end up dating/hooking up with guys that are pretty much my opposite.

OMFG - I've done this before too! LOL!!
Crimthann Posts: 778
Sep 04, 2008 1:16 AM GMT
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god no!
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Sep 04, 2008 1:31 AM GMT
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You know, after a lifetime of being told to "go fuck myself" and thinking that it was at best just a figure of speech, one day I looked at myself in the mirror.

I licked my lips, arched my back a little, gave myself a coy "come-hither" look....

but that wasn't enough, by itself. First I bought myself a drink, and listened to my own cheesy pickup lines:

"Come here often?"

"Where? the living room? Yeah, I guess, though sometimes I hang out in the den or the laundry room."

"Any more like you at home?"

"No," and here I modestly cast down my eyes. "I'm one of a kind."

"I'll say you are." And then, when my back is turned, I slip a couple of roofies into my wineglass and the next thing you know I'm in the bedroom, taking ruthless advantage of myself.

I always feel terrible afterwards.
Mighty_Q Posts: 193
Sep 04, 2008 1:37 AM GMT
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jprichva saidYou know, after a lifetime of being told to "go fuck myself" and thinking that it was at best just a figure of speech, one day I looked at myself in the mirror.

I licked my lips, arched my back a little, gave myself a coy "come-hither" look....

but that wasn't enough, by itself. First I bought myself a drink, and listened to my own cheesy pickup lines:

"Come here often?"

"Where? the living room? Yeah, I guess, though sometimes I hang out in the den or the laundry room."

"Any more like you at home?"

"No," and here I modestly cast down my eyes. "I'm one of a kind."

"I'll say you are." And then, when my back is turned, I slip a couple of roofies into my wineglass and the next thing you know I'm in the bedroom, taking ruthless advantage of myself.

I always feel terrible afterwards.



LMAO!! The same thing happened to me once!!
Guy101 Posts: 875
Sep 04, 2008 2:06 AM GMT
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Buffalo Bill said it best.

"I'd F*** me" and I really would too.
AshLeon Posts: 148
Sep 04, 2008 2:10 AM GMT
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I believe you have to be your own worst critic and your own biggest fan. You know all your own flaws, but you love yourself despite (if not because) of them.

Feeling attractive isn't about some narcissistic desire of oneself, it's about feeling content in your own skin.
dowal Posts: 365
Sep 04, 2008 2:11 AM GMT
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GHoSTa said
When I asked that guy "why wouldn't you start working out ?" he said :

I just don't feel connected to it , If I work out I'd probably feel attracted to my own body ..


That's probably the worst reason I've ever heard for not working out.

Oh and jprichva you get my vote for best post of the day
jonboy320 Posts: 78
Sep 04, 2008 2:33 AM GMT
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Oh - I'd totally do me. But I prefer guys that are more ripped like GregStevensTX or EricLA.
justinmiami Posts: 93
Sep 04, 2008 3:10 AM GMT
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bwg77 saidWell, I wouldn't be my first choice but I wouldn't kick myself to the curb either



Neither would I
metropolitan Posts: 555
Sep 04, 2008 3:19 AM GMT
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I wish I had a clone. I love myself and I'll do me anytime. I did myself last night and I'm doing ti again tonight. I just hope I don't get an STD from myself
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Sep 04, 2008 3:20 AM GMT
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No, sometimes I even have to slip myself some roofies to date rape myself.
dowal Posts: 365
Sep 04, 2008 3:40 AM GMT
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RBY, why do you make me laugh at things that are so wrong?
a1972guy Posts: 1942
Sep 04, 2008 4:17 AM GMT
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Narcissism at it's FINEST!!! LMAO!!!

I'd FUCK me MOST of the time, not always though!
metropolitan Posts: 555
Sep 04, 2008 4:18 AM GMT
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RBY71 saidNo, sometimes I even have to slip myself some roofies to date rape myself.


You don't like yourself? that's fine, I like you, we'll make a great couple
ruck_us Posts: 739
Sep 04, 2008 4:19 AM GMT
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RBY71 saidNo, sometimes I even have to slip myself some roofies to date rape myself.


Can I watch?
Chizzad Posts: 674
Sep 04, 2008 4:21 AM GMT
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Yes that is why I had to remove all the mirrors from the house. Everytime I passed one I always ended up masturbating soon after
dr_jackl Posts: 295
Sep 04, 2008 4:34 AM GMT
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Chizzad saidYes that is why I had to remove all the mirrors from the house. Everytime I passed one I always ended up masturbating soon after

Now we know Chizzad's weakness!

"Kids, there's a scary man out there known as the Chizzad. Watch out, he's a frightfully sexy man. If you ever see him, pull out this pocket mirror I'm about to give you, you throw it at him and you run straight home and you don't look back! You hear me?"
ZbmwM5 Posts: 118
Sep 04, 2008 5:09 AM GMT
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Chizzad saidYes that is why I had to remove all the mirrors from the house. Everytime I passed one I always ended up masturbating soon after


haha... scandals!

I am very polar on this subject- sometimes I think I look really good, and other times I think I look like the grossest thing that ever was born.... depends on the day.

But generally im not attracted to guys 'like' me, so I'm not sure how attracted to myself I am...

what a narcissistic topic!!
Sedative Posts: 5407
Sep 04, 2008 5:10 AM GMT
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jprichva saidYou know, after a lifetime of being told to "go fuck myself" and thinking that it was at best just a figure of speech, one day I looked at myself in the mirror.

I licked my lips, arched my back a little, gave myself a coy "come-hither" look....

but that wasn't enough, by itself. First I bought myself a drink, and listened to my own cheesy pickup lines:

"Come here often?"

"Where? the living room? Yeah, I guess, though sometimes I hang out in the den or the laundry room."

"Any more like you at home?"

"No," and here I modestly cast down my eyes. "I'm one of a kind."

"I'll say you are." And then, when my back is turned, I slip a couple of roofies into my wineglass and the next thing you know I'm in the bedroom, taking ruthless advantage of myself.

I always feel terrible afterwards.


ROFLMAO

Would you classify this as a moral failure?
EricLA Posts: 1134
Sep 04, 2008 5:18 AM GMT
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OK, I admit I did feel attracted to myself once. But then I stood myself up, and I totally lost interest.
mtown_nerd Posts: 75
Sep 04, 2008 5:21 AM GMT
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I certainly wont' go so far as to say that I'm attracted to myself; I personally don't see myself *nearly* where I want to be. However, I have gotten up on some mornings, zombie stumbled into my bathroom shirtless or naked, looked at myself in the mirror, and done a bonefied double-take and long stare at myself. It's usually only in those moments when I first wake up, I suppose after I haven't had any access to mirrors or reflective surfaces for 6-8 hours, that I notice the progress I've made in working out.

*shrug*

Not sure if that technically qualifies as narcissism or not.
kencarson Posts: 84
Sep 04, 2008 5:33 AM GMT
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I'd fuck me.

muchmorethanm... Posts: 2767
Sep 04, 2008 7:07 AM GMT
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rasiya saidIt's really embarrassing but I have "checked someone out" in a store only to realize I was looking at a mirror across the room. So I guess I am, somewhat... Generally end up dating/hooking up with guys that are pretty much my opposite.


LOL...this was funny.
muchmorethanm... Posts: 2767
Sep 04, 2008 7:08 AM GMT
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jprichva saidYou know, after a lifetime of being told to "go fuck myself" and thinking that it was at best just a figure of speech, one day I looked at myself in the mirror.

I licked my lips, arched my back a little, gave myself a coy "come-hither" look....

but that wasn't enough, by itself. First I bought myself a drink, and listened to my own cheesy pickup lines:

"Come here often?"

"Where? the living room? Yeah, I guess, though sometimes I hang out in the den or the laundry room."

"Any more like you at home?"

"No," and here I modestly cast down my eyes. "I'm one of a kind."

"I'll say you are." And then, when my back is turned, I slip a couple of roofies into my wineglass and the next thing you know I'm in the bedroom, taking ruthless advantage of myself.

I always feel terrible afterwards.


I think this was juuuuust a tad too detailed to be taken as a joke.
muchmorethanm... Posts: 2767
Sep 04, 2008 7:18 AM GMT
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Years ago when I lived at home I let in a few friends that came by and rang my doorbell. As they walked into my house they caught a glimpse of my sleeping brother on the sofa and they stopped in their tracks and lightly chuckled. Without hesitation they both exclaimed that they thought it was me on the sofa sleeping and were shocked.
I asked them both, "Do you two really think I look so much like my ugly ass brother?" They exuberantly replied with a big "YES." So from that day I onward I was a bit affected by it. I think there are days when I look good as in very healthy and skin looks good/even but I wouldn't clone myself to have sex with myself. Not saying I don't like the way I look but I'm not my type.
sexysamer Posts: 1762
Sep 04, 2008 8:01 AM GMT
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GHoSTa said
When I asked that guy "why wouldn't you start working out ?" he said :

I just don't feel connected to it , If I work out I'd probably feel attracted to my own body ..
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So when you look in the mirror ... ?


when i look in the mirror i have to masturbate. yes i am so hot lol
jjon Posts: 22
Sep 04, 2008 8:47 AM GMT
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no, unfortunately not :-(
meninlove Posts: 1154
Sep 04, 2008 12:54 PM GMT
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"Sometimes this face looks so funny,
that I hide it, behind a book,
But, sometimes this face,
has so much class,
that I have to sneak a second look"

-'Either or Both' by Phoebe Snow
ursamajor Posts: 1418
Sep 04, 2008 1:08 PM GMT
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Well somebody's gotta do it.
Mars Posts: 117
Sep 04, 2008 1:58 PM GMT
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HighVoltageGu... Posts: 1257
Sep 04, 2008 2:12 PM GMT
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Like rasiya, there have been times that I've caught myself looking at someone out of the corner of my eye at the gym only to find out that it's my refelction in the mirror.
Would I date me, no. BUT...I wouldn't kick myself out of bed either...I'd fuck my ass. LOL!
KingBee38 Posts: 33
Sep 04, 2008 2:20 PM GMT
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No, I HATE the way I look.....

The ONLY reason I work out is because it gets blowjobs and ass...

It's a chore.
dakuk Posts: 515
Sep 04, 2008 2:24 PM GMT
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GregStevensTX said... I'm not attracted to myself... although I recognize that I am the "type" of attractive that some guys (luckily, often guys I go for) are attracted to.


oh greg, you crack me up! you can't help it can you?
lilmaninsc Posts: 461
Sep 04, 2008 2:29 PM GMT
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Sure, I'd do me!

of course, I'd like to be in more shape, ie, bigger arms, abs.. you know, get all muscly
Librarian Posts: 187
Sep 04, 2008 2:53 PM GMT
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If "making love" to yourself feels like a mercy f... is the answer no ?
KissingPro Posts: 353
Sep 04, 2008 4:53 PM GMT
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YEP. I would. I wouldn't allow myself to slip away since it would be one of those one in a million dream opportunities, mentally and physically. It would also help to have someone slap me and put me in my place every now and then. The sex would always be primal and satisfying too.
RyanReBoRn Posts: 569
Sep 04, 2008 5:07 PM GMT
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I think I have an attractive body and I get the "your handsome" often but I'm not attracted to myself like that... o_0


What a wierd topic to think about...
Damascus_Stee... Posts: 4
Sep 04, 2008 5:11 PM GMT
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To quote Silence of the Lambs, "Would you fuck me?..... I'd fuck me...... I'd fuck me hard."
I only go to nightclubs with mirrors on the walls because that way I can have the best dance partner there. LOL!
gettoknowit Posts: 1042
Sep 04, 2008 5:21 PM GMT
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I suppose, if I didn't, don't think I could come up with the idea that there are millions of people out there avoiding collection calls just to get by and clear a path for me, investing in things which nourish me on my quest by focusing on the here and now. I don't know, sounded good.
turk Posts: 386
Sep 04, 2008 6:00 PM GMT
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it is called otosexuality. bodybuilding or fitness is also an otosexual thing for gays. i am sure all the gays who have sexy bodies are atracted to their own bodies.
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Sep 04, 2008 6:22 PM GMT
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nah... I am to hard on myself. When I look down all I see in imperfections. Makes me work harder at the gym!
metropolitan Posts: 555
Sep 04, 2008 7:54 PM GMT
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wolfeman saidnah... I am to hard on myself. When I look down all I see in imperfections. Makes me work harder at the gym!


I'm almost like you, but I'm not hard on myself, I get me hard
nysexy Posts: 780
Sep 04, 2008 8:08 PM GMT
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Not really...i mean i have my days when i feel like i look good, but generally...no.
Craigory123 Posts: 33
Sep 04, 2008 9:28 PM GMT
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A related story:

A friend of my boyfriend's was in a bar after a few drinks one night. And he saw a guy kind of looking at him, and he thought, "Well, he's cute enough to take him home tonight, but not cute enough to call the next day." The friend starts walking across the room to approach the guy, and the other guy notices because he starts walking towards him as well..... and then he ran into the mirror.

He recounts that the saddest thing about the story is that he thought he was cute enough to take home but not enough to call the next day.
chillz4thrill... Posts: 56
Sep 05, 2008 3:40 PM GMT
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Id do me.....
chinosurfguy Posts: 155
Sep 05, 2008 3:42 PM GMT
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I work out so that some day I will maybe think I am at least semi attractive
CuriousJockAZ Posts: 2283
Sep 05, 2008 3:45 PM GMT
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I don't know how attracted I am to myself per se, but there are days when I just can't seem to keep my hands off myself
Jockbod48 Posts: 1488
Sep 05, 2008 3:48 PM GMT
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I'd do me - I'd even take me to breakfast the next morning - heck, I'd even propose to me!
chillz4thrill... Posts: 56
Sep 05, 2008 4:03 PM GMT
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chinosurfguy said I work out so that some day I will maybe think I am at least semi attractive



Dude you are way cute!
slimboy17 Posts: 8
Sep 05, 2008 9:25 PM GMT
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There is a joke wich goes around my collage about gay guys and it gos like this
"if a gay guy has no pron what does he wank over? there reflection"

to be honest i dont think its funny at all i have nether looked in the mirrow and tought oh i want a wank now lol i think you have to be warther sad to wank over your self
mindgarden Posts: 1398
Sep 05, 2008 9:42 PM GMT
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Hmm... Now I'm thinking of a layout for a new nightclub, The Narcissus, with a grid of mirrors arranged on the floor and very flattering lighting arrangements. The cover charge will be at least twice as high as the rest of the places in town. Discreet stalls provided in the restroom. With mirrors, of course.

Oh! And slots in the mirrors where you can stuff dollar bills to tip the stripper!

Seriously, sometimes I catch a glimpse of myself in the mirror and think "hot." Two minutes later, I look again and it's "ewwww." Maybe I shouldn't have got these cheap used mirrors from the funhouse.

metropolitan Posts: 555
Sep 05, 2008 9:45 PM GMT
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Craigory123 saidA related story:

A friend of my boyfriend's was in a bar after a few drinks one night. And he saw a guy kind of looking at him, and he thought, "Well, he's cute enough to take him home tonight, but not cute enough to call the next day." The friend starts walking across the room to approach the guy, and the other guy notices because he starts walking towards him as well..... and then he ran into the mirror.

He recounts that the saddest thing about the story is that he thought he was cute enough to take home but not enough to call the next day.


that's hilarious
lol

SoDakGuy Posts: 630
Sep 05, 2008 9:47 PM GMT
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Hello! Look at me. ;)

noren Posts: 6
Sep 06, 2008 6:03 AM GMT
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I hope this isn't a non sequitur, but Gore Vidal said that "a narcissist is anyone better looking than you."
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Sep 06, 2008 8:50 AM GMT
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Thought: Oh yeah, I'd screw him.
pakgreekguy Posts: 297
Sep 06, 2008 10:01 AM GMT
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I DO have a mirror on my ceiling above my bed....needless to say i dont leave my bed often......
Lapinblanc Posts: 243
Sep 06, 2008 10:20 AM GMT
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NO, I don't care for tall guys
Ghen Posts: 471
Sep 06, 2008 11:20 AM GMT
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I've never been attracted to myself except when I'm drunk off tequila.

Then again when I'm drunk off tequila, I'm anybody's.
Air_Marshal Posts: 2
Sep 06, 2008 11:27 AM GMT
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GHoSTa said
When I asked that guy "why wouldn't you start working out ?" he said :

I just don't feel connected to it , If I work out I'd probably feel attracted to my own body ..


Just like me: I think if I workout, I would be in love with my body, and... I would feel connected with the always-smiling guy I was.

I'm trying to start to workout, so, I hope to upload some pics of my new body in a near future
redheadguy Posts: 2221
Sep 06, 2008 11:40 AM GMT
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I have mirrored wardrobes.
onstagebuffna... Posts: 41
Sep 06, 2008 12:46 PM GMT
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i'd do me.....twice, then repeat
spinningguy Posts: 130
Sep 06, 2008 2:18 PM GMT
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I can't believe some of you said yes...especially since you know where you have been. JK

I would take myself home if it was 2am and all the young hot boys had already found someone.
metropolitan Posts: 555
Sep 06, 2008 5:15 PM GMT
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spinningguy saidI can't believe some of you said yes...especially since you know where you have been. JK

I would take myself home if it was 2am and all the young hot boys had already found someone.


you're right, I know where I've been but I still do me every day.
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Sep 07, 2008 3:47 AM GMT
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I think this is actually a very complicated question, and it depends on what level you're talking about when you say "attracted to"....

When I'm with a guy who absolutely goes nuts over my body, I think of and see my body "through his eyes" and I turn myself on incredibly. I focus on what I know he's attracted to and how I must look to him, how I must fulfilll his fantasies, etc. So in that sense I am turned on by my body.

However, when I'm at a club and guys who have a similar build to me hit on me, I totally look right past them to the lean/defined pretty-boy in the corner. I'm not turned on by the idea of being with a guy as bulky as I am. So in that sense my body doesn't turn me on.
GHoSTa Posts: 574
Sep 07, 2008 5:31 PM GMT
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GregStevensTX saidI think this is actually a very complicated question, and it depends on what level you're talking about when you say "attracted to"....

When I'm with a guy who absolutely goes nuts over my body, I think of and see my body "through his eyes" and I turn myself on incredibly. I focus on what I know he's attracted to and how I must look to him, how I must fulfilll his fantasies, etc. So in that sense I am turned on by my body.

However, when I'm at a club and guys who have a similar build to me hit on me, I totally look right past them to the lean/defined pretty-boy in the corner. I'm not turned on by the idea of being with a guy as bulky as I am. So in that sense my body doesn't turn me on.



You have a point here ! I always said that the good thing in bieng gay is that you know what can attract other men to you, as you know what can attract you to other men .. gay couple are the same sex and attracted to the same sex , that makes it easier for them to understand each other's needs and passions .. .. lucky to be gay !
bryanedwardcl... Posts: 130
Sep 07, 2008 9:11 PM GMT
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rasiya saidIt's really embarrassing but I have "checked someone out" in a store only to realize I was looking at a mirror across the room. So I guess I am, somewhat... Generally end up dating/hooking up with guys that are pretty much my opposite.



Ditto.
muchmorethanm... Posts: 2767
Sep 08, 2008 5:31 AM GMT
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KingBee38 saidNo, I HATE the way I look.....

The ONLY reason I work out is because it gets blowjobs and ass...

It's a chore.


Thanks for the honesty. You've basically answered for a large majority of why a lot of gay men workout to be in good shape. To get sex.
muchmorethanm... Posts: 2767
Sep 08, 2008 5:38 AM GMT
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GregStevensTX saidI'm not turned on by the idea of being with a guy as bulky as I am. So in that sense my body doesn't turn me on.


You consider yourself bulky at 175 at a height of 5'11"? So what am I? Obese?



Sniffle... !
Mars Posts: 117
Sep 08, 2008 5:16 PM GMT
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muchmorethanmuscle said
KingBee38 saidNo, I HATE the way I look.....

The ONLY reason I work out is because it gets blowjobs and ass...

It's a chore.


Thanks for the honesty. You've basically answered for a large majority of why a lot of gay men workout to be in good shape. To get sex.


Yeah, I thought that was kind of a strange thing to say too. Its kinda demeaning to those of us who want to be in shape for reasons other than getting sex. Not to mention, extremely shallow.
TallGWMvballe... Posts: 859
Sep 08, 2008 6:14 PM GMT
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NO, I am way not my type.

I work out to be healthy, to be able to play Volleyball well and to aid in my career lugging around heavy Camera gear and doing long hours of hand-held shooting.


My type are guys like Sedative and Dr Jack --- smooth and thin.
BeNiHiKoU Posts: 36
Oct 23, 2008 7:25 PM GMT
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Do I feel ATTRACTED to myself?!... No, not truly... More of a contemplative pride than an actual attraction..

Do I find myself ATTRACTIVE?!... Though that took me some time to admit, I ultimately can say 'yes'... I find myself relatively attractive..

Would I fuck myself?!.... Why not?!... Just to get an idea of what it feels to.... you know?!.. Fuck me!!.... Because I find that masturbating does not relay that experience quite faithfully - nor would someone else!!...
mattyrec Posts: 27
Oct 23, 2008 7:44 PM GMT
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Chizzad saidYes that is why I had to remove all the mirrors from the house. Everytime I passed one I always ended up masturbating soon after


I can see that... everytime I see you I masterbate too...lookin at myself? not so much!
lilTanker Posts: 1131
Oct 23, 2008 7:52 PM GMT
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good heavens no, I'd prefer to look at someone else.
SAHEM62896 Posts: 1222
Oct 23, 2008 7:55 PM GMT
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yes... both the insides and the outs.
RunintheCity Posts: 1455
Oct 23, 2008 7:56 PM GMT
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I like me, but I wouldn't date me.
GQjock Posts: 3686
Oct 25, 2008 2:06 AM GMT
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I have commitment issues
TheIStrat Posts: 169
Oct 25, 2008 2:23 AM GMT
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I'm not that attracted to myself. Sometimes I wonder why my bf likes me so much
LittleDudeWit... Posts: 684
Oct 25, 2008 2:50 AM GMT
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Well, actually. . . yeah. And I think that's healthy, not egotistical.
Yourwarmnfuzz... Posts: 46
Oct 26, 2008 9:12 PM GMT
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another one of those questions that make me feel awkward to reveal what is really or has really gone on in my head.
I'm definitely not attracted to myself. As a child I thought I was ugly yet I can't find one ugly childhood photo, I was actually a handsome boy. In my teens I got a great haircut one day and was really impressed with my own beauty. But then I gained some weight and not until I worked out and was 125lbs, the ladies in the grocery store where turning around to look at me. I can't be for sure but I think I was molested as a 2 year old in the hospital. And I don't like to be stared at in public for being nice looking. That is probably why I seem to gain weight in the summer and lose it in the winter as a protective mechanism.
In the morning while I have shave cream on one side of my face I like the way my eyes look and I'm glad to like it. Since most of the rest of the day I'm not impressed with my looks. It's one of those simple pleasures I hope to not live without.
I have one fingernail deformity I was born with and so far no one has ever been turned off by it but I'm constantly hiding it.
And I'm one of the hairiest you'll ever see, but I prefer smooth or some body hair.
I'm glad for the guys that like themselves though, I'm jealous they like to fuck themselves, that's just not fair to look that good but somebodies got to be there. I'd like to give myself a blowjob.
ZDREW Posts: 1947
Oct 27, 2008 9:24 PM GMT
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Not really. I'm proud of what I've done with my body, but I'm not turned on by it. And besides, I'm not my type...I'm wayyy too old for my own tastes.
Azstreaker Posts: 616
Oct 28, 2008 6:02 AM GMT
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Hey, you know what??

I am good with my own skin!

Narcissistic....maybe a dash.......

Hedonistic...just a touch......

Egoistic.......just a tad.......

Want a taste?

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It's for fun and I am a bag of laughs...LOL
Sean_85 Posts: 1017
Oct 28, 2008 6:27 AM GMT
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Yeah, i'd have sex with myself. However to date myself not so much... I'd prolly break my own heart.
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Oct 28, 2008 3:29 PM GMT
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i was recently in in the mood to get off and didnt have any available porn,but i did catch a nice view of myself in the mirror and that was the start of something good. I guess I'm my type. Slightly strange i guess.
Mycro Posts: 21
Oct 28, 2008 3:40 PM GMT
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I think I agree with a lot of the guys here. I'm just not my type. I hate to say it, but I'm never attracted to guys who are as short as me. I think I like being the little guy, lol.
GHoSTa Posts: 574
Oct 28, 2008 11:14 PM GMT
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I wonder if anybody here started to feel attracted to his own body only after he gained some muscle mass .. I guess it can happen ..right?
gem01 Posts: 91
Oct 28, 2008 11:33 PM GMT
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I'd do me.
Ghen Posts: 471
Oct 29, 2008 9:57 AM GMT
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Well I have to say that I prefer my body more now that I work out, and I can imagine myself getting to a great narcisstic state.
cjcscuba1984 Posts: 175
Oct 29, 2008 10:02 AM GMT
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<----Uglier than a stick!
Sirkit Posts: 86
Oct 31, 2008 4:42 AM GMT
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Yeah I'd sleep with me. Would I date me... it would be awkward my personality would clash with it's self.

I don't think it's narcissistic though just proof of satisfaction with yourself. Certainly healthier than plastic surgery.
lilmaninsc Posts: 461
Oct 31, 2008 5:11 AM GMT
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Reminds me of that shirt that says, "I'd do me!"
RyanReBoRn Posts: 569
Oct 31, 2008 5:20 AM GMT
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cjcscuba1984 said<----Uglier than a stick!



You mean hit with an ugly stick? And a big one ta boot? I don't think so


I, on the other hand, am truly becoming one sexy beast of a guy. Just wait until my facial hair finally grows out!
woofydude Posts: 27
Nov 07, 2008 3:57 PM GMT
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If you make it a goal to take better care of yourself, it positively motivates you in your foreplay and assertiveness.

Feeling better about yourself makes you a better lover.
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