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Cute or Hot?
joshuwer Posts: 14	Aug 10, 2008 10:58 AM GMT Quote Just a thought, if you see a guy out; and you percieve him as being cute (but not hot)... Are you attracted to him or do you dismiss him based on boyish looks etc and stereotype them as being an immature twink? Or do you find that someone that is defined as hot is more of the person you would go for?

Hidden/Deleted Member	Aug 10, 2008 11:19 AM GMT Quote Doesn't matter. Cute can be hot. Hot can be cute. But if blessed with a great personality, both can be SIZZLIN'!
muchmorethanm... Posts: 2759	Aug 10, 2008 12:33 PM GMT Quote I tend to save the word "cute" for much younger guys. These guys are generally not my type because I am not attracted to young men. I don't think I'd call a man in his 30's and especially in his 40's or older as cute.
fulldelight Posts: 131	Aug 10, 2008 2:02 PM GMT Quote Well, often young boys are called cute. With that sweet, rather innocent look on their faces.... I get called "cute" all the time Hot is someone who really looks like... sex The kinda guy you wanna grab right there on the street and tear him apart. At least that's how I see things
andymatic Posts: 52	Aug 10, 2008 2:58 PM GMT Quote I think height also makes a difference. Us short guys are usually relegated to cute or adorable over being hot. Granted this is usually done to us by the taller homo sasquatches.
BigSETXjock Posts: 387	Aug 10, 2008 4:32 PM GMT Quote I think boys are cute, whereas men are hot, handsome or "sick." I don't mind someone saying something I did was cute, but I don't like being called cute. Cute is what you call a kitten, puppy or a twink.
krmdallas Posts: 25	Aug 10, 2008 4:34 PM GMT Quote Ahhh come on your such a good pup! & just sooooooo cute!
muttskins Posts: 904	Aug 10, 2008 4:37 PM GMT Quote <== CUTE!
blink777 Posts: 499	Aug 10, 2008 4:44 PM GMT Quote andymatic saidI think height also makes a difference. Us short guys are usually relegated to cute or adorable over being hot. Granted this is usually done to us by the taller homo sasquatches. Haha! Hear hear! Anyway, at this point in my life, I'd go for the "cute" guys over "stereotypically hot" ones. Of course, I'm not limiting myself, I'm just a little more drawn to cute right now.
Hoodiestud Posts: 175	Aug 10, 2008 5:02 PM GMT Quote Alot of guys refer to me as cute....not hott.... what does that mean, cuz when they say im cute, i do percieve it as I look immature and young.
baldrick05 Posts: 82	Aug 10, 2008 5:11 PM GMT Quote im with you hoodie. They always call me cute. I gues ill have to wait til im forty to be "hot". Atleast that is what bigtex jock thinks
GQjock Posts: 3681	Aug 10, 2008 5:23 PM GMT Quote I've been called both ...and I use them interchangeably
PSCalif Posts: 146	Aug 10, 2008 6:16 PM GMT Quote 'Cute' is for anyone leaner than I am. 'Hot' is for anyone more muscular than I am.
looknrnd Posts: 423	Aug 10, 2008 6:37 PM GMT Quote Cute is the guy you want to marry! Hot is the guy you WISH were marriage material!
spinningguy Posts: 130	Aug 10, 2008 6:42 PM GMT Quote I'm not that picky Cute or Hot its all good!
Hidden/Deleted Member	Aug 10, 2008 6:59 PM GMT Quote cute is boyfriend material and attractive, probably with a good sense of humor; his personality enhances his appearance hot is boyfriend material but you also wanna fuck the everlivin' outta him ;)
a1972guy Posts: 1934	Aug 10, 2008 8:37 PM GMT Quote Doesn't matter either way; sometimes cute turns out being WAY better than HOT!!
redheadguy Posts: 2216	Aug 10, 2008 9:48 PM GMT Quote Either is better than ugly or fat.
MikePhilPerez Posts: 2814	Aug 10, 2008 11:10 PM GMT Quote redheadguy saidEither is better than ugly or fat. Now, now, Red...........there is no need for that
Nautical Posts: 162	Aug 10, 2008 11:24 PM GMT Quote personally, if you call me cute im not going to go for ya. cute is what you call a child or small animals. call me hot and then ill assume you want sex. try handsome, its in the middle and it has a different meaning than the others.
explorer Posts: 44	Aug 10, 2008 11:39 PM GMT Quote Cute is the one I want. Unless Hot's around, then I'll take Hot. Heck, how about a three way? No need to hurt anyone's feelings right?
Pattison Posts: 1984	Aug 11, 2008 12:26 AM GMT Quote Nautical saidpersonally, if you call me cute im not going to go for ya. cute is what you call a child or small animals. call me hot and then ill assume you want sex. try handsome, its in the middle and it has a different meaning than the others. I myself have always said: only puppies and babies are cute. So long as they look like a man.
joshuwer Posts: 14	Aug 11, 2008 12:56 AM GMT Quote Great that there is a good response to this thread! I've found (i'm an aussie guy here) that the association of being cute, comes in closely with the twink reference to most young guys out there; personally I don't like the term twink, its almost like making a comparence to a paris hilton type personality. I agree with a few of you on here bout the term "handsome" or something that falls in between cute and hot.
Hidden/Deleted Member	Aug 11, 2008 1:05 AM GMT Quote I consider myself neither hot nor cute. I'm just doable in a last call sort of way.
spinningguy Posts: 130	Aug 11, 2008 1:38 AM GMT Quote RBY71 saidI consider myself neither hot nor cute. I'm just doable in a last call sort of way. You are definitely cute! and the fact that you don't realize you are cute makes you hot!
Hidden/Deleted Member	Aug 11, 2008 1:44 AM GMT Quote Nautical saidcute is what you call a child or small animals. Or, when you get to my age, they call you cute again, like "look at that cute little ole grampaw"....
Sedative Posts: 5407	Aug 11, 2008 3:41 AM GMT Quote jprichva said Nautical saidcute is what you call a child or small animals. Or, when you get to my age, they call you cute again, like "look at that cute little ole grampaw".... Oh lookit dat hot lil ole grampaw!
Hoodiestud Posts: 175	Aug 11, 2008 4:42 AM GMT Quote BigSETXjock saidI think boys are cute, whereas men are hot, handsome or "sick." I don't mind someone saying something I did was cute, but I don't like being called cute. Cute is what you call a kitten, puppy or a twink. I hope im not considered a "twink"....lol I HOPE IM NOT CONSIDERED ANYTHING but me....
BigSETXjock Posts: 387	Aug 11, 2008 3:39 PM GMT Quote Yes... Hoodie... you get your very own catagory ;) The "good enough to lick from head to toe" catagory ;)
Jockbod48 Posts: 1486	Aug 11, 2008 3:51 PM GMT Quote I think I'm way beyond being called "cute" except by a few women I work with (and their opinions don't count!)
meninlove Posts: 1143	Aug 11, 2008 4:15 PM GMT Quote Yow! Someone mentioned boys are cute guys are hot, handsome or "sick" . Help! Can aomeone tell me where the term "sick" came from? I'm stumped.
CrazyKid Posts: 12	Aug 11, 2008 4:31 PM GMT Quote I am attracted to guys that I'd call cute or hot. A lot of the time the hot ones have a better body and at least some seniority on me. I'm assuming that's how most people think about it as well. But even knowing that, whenever I get called cute I quite feel like I am viewed as an adult in their eyes. Same thing when someone calls you "boy".
TallGWMvballe... Posts: 853	Aug 11, 2008 4:53 PM GMT Quote "Cute" to me are guys I think are very attractive in a boyish way; nice smile, smooth, clean shaven and thin to average build (no matter what age) and NICE personality. "hot" is cute with some overt sexuality. It seems on this site our definitions are really varied, We all have different standards for what we find "Cute" or "Hot"
Hidden/Deleted Member	Aug 11, 2008 5:16 PM GMT Quote I have no clue what the difference is. There are tons of cute younger guys.
Jackal69 Posts: 651	Aug 12, 2008 8:25 PM GMT Quote Cute is a great adjective for babies, young children, and baby doll dresses. Hot is all about sex, attitude, and skin (or the desire to see more of the hot one's). Sometimes my hairstyles get the cute label but I almost never do.
BigSETXjock Posts: 387	Aug 12, 2008 8:31 PM GMT Quote meninlove said Help! Can aomeone tell me where the term "sick" came from? I'm stumped. Must not be too many black folks in Vancouver ;) "Sick" is Black slang for "awesome" or "over the top perfect."
Jackal69 Posts: 651	Aug 12, 2008 8:42 PM GMT Quote I thought "sick" took the place of "sweet" in the late 1970's/early 1980's, coming from white Californians but actually used as meaning "great" or "cool" in the UK (maybe Red can shed some light on that one). "Slick" (meaning shady, hip, manipulative, or cool) is a word from African Americans I think.
Bunjamon Posts: 286	Aug 12, 2008 8:56 PM GMT Quote I am called cute waaaaay more often than I'm called hot. I guess it's my boyish face. As long as someone doesn't go, "Hey dumbo," or "Hey beanpole," they can describe me however they want.
HighVoltageGu... Posts: 1242	Aug 12, 2008 8:58 PM GMT Quote I use the term interchangeably. A man can be strikingly hot and yet do something irresistibly hot.
joeindallas Posts: 440	Aug 12, 2008 9:47 PM GMT Quote It is like "WICKED PISSA" a new England term for teh best. Unfortunally those west of the Hudson do not have a clue. Well why should anything else be different
getfitrick Posts: 140	Aug 12, 2008 10:03 PM GMT Quote People use to coin me as "cute" a lot when I was smaller (138-155) used to drive me nuts I wanted to be "hot" now I'm getting bigger I hear "hot" time to time. But now I see you cant really complain about being called any of them
Carmania2 Posts: 9	Aug 12, 2008 10:42 PM GMT Quote hey, as long as you enjoy looking at someone, don't worry about what to call it! Just separate the "attractive" from the "Cheney-esque" and go after the ones in the former category.
ChicagoTechGu... Posts: 1	Aug 12, 2008 10:47 PM GMT Quote When I'm told I'm "cute", it's that message of "you're cool and all, but I would never want to do anything sexual with you" Where-as if I get told i'm "hot", usually from "cute" or "twink" boys, they want to have sex with me... anyone somewhat agree with me?
cutejock Posts: 5	Aug 18, 2008 8:11 AM GMT Quote This is something I just brought up to a friend recently, and he followed it by saying "but you are cute!" The argument led to him telling me that: cute is usually for younger guys that you wish you could take home and get with, but also want to have again and again hot is the guy that has the look to take home tonight (usually right now!), but you probably only want for one night
YngHungSFSD Posts: 356	Sep 07, 2008 11:37 PM GMT Quote meninlove said Yow! Someone mentioned boys are cute guys are hot, handsome or "sick" . Help! Can aomeone tell me where the term "sick" came from? I'm stumped. Sick, sic, this is a common current US cultural term having a similar meaning as such past cultural phrases like awesome and sweet, In general its most often used to describe things; music, skate moves and things like that. Example; Their new album is just sick. That's the sickest move I've seen in a long time. I haven't yet heard this used to describe a person in the same way as hot or cute, but maybe I'm missing a version.
collegeswimmr Posts: 59	Sep 14, 2008 9:50 AM GMT Quote cutejock saidThis is something I just brought up to a friend recently, and he followed it by saying "but you are cute!" The argument led to him telling me that: cute is usually for younger guys that you wish you could take home and get with, but also want to have again and again hot is the guy that has the look to take home tonight (usually right now!), but you probably only want for one night I've heard it's the opposite. Well at least for me it's the opposite. A monkey is cute, but you don't take it to bed. I'll take hot any day.
dcarm Posts: 291	Sep 14, 2008 10:02 AM GMT Quote I've been trying to explain something similar to my hag, certain adjectives are used only in conjunction with certain synonyms for "guy". a man can be hot, handsome or beautiful a boy can be pretty or cute Do not use boy adjectives with "man" and vice versa. both can be attractive, sexy, gorgeous etc. "guy" is safe. You can use any adjectives you like with "guy". It's all to do with how the words fit together. I swear, this is Gayglish 101!
Ghen Posts: 471	Sep 14, 2008 12:08 PM GMT Quote Yeah, I'd say that young people tend to be 'cute' and older people tend to be 'hot'. But I'm more likely to approach someone that I consider cute than someone that I consider hot, probably because I feel less threatened by them or I might consider them more in my league or something like that.
muttskins Posts: 904	Sep 14, 2008 12:28 PM GMT Quote Ghen saidI'm more likely to approach someone that I consider cute than someone that I consider hot, probably because I feel less threatened by them or I might consider them more in my league or something like that. Pick ME, pick ME! Hehe!
Ghen Posts: 471	Sep 14, 2008 1:04 PM GMT Quote muttskins said Ghen saidI'm more likely to approach someone that I consider cute than someone that I consider hot, probably because I feel less threatened by them or I might consider them more in my league or something like that. Pick ME, pick ME! Hehe!
Latinito Posts: 1	Sep 14, 2008 5:19 PM GMT Quote I prefer a HOT MAN........ALWAYS!!!!!!
TheIStrat Posts: 157	Oct 20, 2008 3:52 AM GMT Quote I like cute over hot myself. I get put into the cute category a lot. I get called a twink a lot by guys. I think it's because I'm a soft passive person. But I'm not stupid, like twinks are supposed to be.
timidpup Posts: 137	Oct 20, 2008 5:30 AM GMT Quote I'm apparently cute, mostly for the twink stereotype... most twinks are angry pop bitches though... i would definitely not call myself that... in looking for guys to date... i think cute or hot works... but cute is much better when it comes to cuddling sometimes...
Rune Posts: 346	Oct 20, 2008 5:36 AM GMT Quote Cute is a higher status than hot. By far.
Maverick75 Posts: 316	Oct 20, 2008 5:56 AM GMT Quote muchmorethanmuscle saidI tend to save the word "cute" for much younger guys. These guys are generally not my type because I am not attracted to young men. I don't think I'd call a man in his 30's and especially in his 40's or older as cute. I've seen some older men I'd still call cute.
nautilie7 Posts: 101	Oct 26, 2008 9:37 PM GMT Quote I think that's a personal preference.. I my self doesn't really like a guy with cute girly/boyish look. I prefer them to be butch and manly..
GHoSTa Posts: 574	Oct 26, 2008 10:12 PM GMT Quote CUTE is a goodlooking guy , nice smile .. feels good to look at him.. HOT is mainly rough muscular guy .. u'll just get horny when u look at such a guy.. I prefer CUTE guys .. if it's for a relationship ..
westguy79 Posts: 36	Oct 26, 2008 10:40 PM GMT Quote I'm always called cute... I'm packing on the muscle so I can be HOT!
cjcscuba1984 Posts: 173	Oct 26, 2008 11:19 PM GMT Quote Pattison said I myself have always said: only puppies and babies are cute. I feel the same way... well I'm mean Puppies are cute. Babies are.... yuck ... dirty, loud, gross, stinky, etc. I glad I was never one!
unbridledchic... Posts: 1	Nov 03, 2008 5:16 AM GMT Quote I've been called hot and i've been called cute. It's chill either way. Both count as an "in". ;)

Bjorn203 Posts: 21	Nov 05, 2008 11:50 AM GMT Quote It is my experience that Cute is usually in reference to the attractiveness of the face. Hot is more a statement on the body. But hey, Im hardly a guru.

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