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Have you ever been tied up and had sex? Is it as hot as Ithink it is... or over rated? I might do it soon with a really hot guy that wants to be the top and tie me down.

Curious what people think that have done it.

OO noice

It can be fun with a guy you trust and really really want!

I've had my hands tied up, and my legs joined and it was fun. The only thing though, is you can't touch the guy back, but he can do anything he wants to you

I have, you do have to have some trust there. We tied each other up and blindfolded each other. It was fun.

How well do you know this guy? If people can vouch that he isn't going to tie you up and then fuck you bareback then have a gay ol' time. Try it out a few times and see how you like it. But always make sure you can trust your dom and the dom will respect your limits (and push them just a little).

Have fun.

Tied up and blind folded and had a whip taken to my back during.
At first I thought no way I was going to enjoy this, but it really turned me on..
Now guys think I am fucking crazy for liking it..

MunchingZombie saidHow well do you know this guy? If people can vouch that he isn't going to tie you up and then fuck you bareback then have a gay ol' time. Try it out a few times and see how you like it. But always make sure you can trust your dom and the dom will respect your limits (and push them just a little).

Have fun.

Yeah, it's a good idea to be able to get yourself free if you need to.

I have been into BDSM play off and on for years.... for me it is occasional fun. for some people it is a whole lifestyle much like being a jock is for me and many guys on RJ

Be very careful with that.

Cool... well it does sound like lots of fun. Will take all this into consideration. I do get excited thinking about giving up control to someone I trust and as soon as I am restrained I am there till they are done. ha!

John43620 saidBe very careful with that.

Thank you John.

YES that is good advice to anyone who wants to venture into that kind of play.

-- Ron

I'm claustrophobic. Nuh-uh. Never will.

Sedative saidI'm claustrophobic. Nuh-uh. Never will.

Then you would LOVE a vacuum cube

it can be fun both ways...

you being the tier... or the tie-ee
but I'd wait until you at least know if the guy has a police record or not

I've never done it. Control can be an issue with me.. its rarely relinquished. While there are some who would love to render me "powerless" by a tie down, I'm not sure I could do it honestly.

Yeah but when you're the bigger guy it's usually not an option. Maybe I didn't have the opportunity to tie someone up but when I was 252lb of solid muscle it wasn't easy for guys to throw me off when I was on top and got a little carried away.

'Sides...rape fantasies are kinda hot. Holding them down by their arms on top and watching them squirm...
Slurp.. .
Whoops, guess that's a slightly different fantasy as allowing yourself to be tied up is giving permission.

Tied up or pinned down... either way the guy can get carried away and push some of your limits. I guess that's the fun part. If I trust a guy, I think it might be fun to let him push me a little.

I've never been tied up for sex.. but it sounds so exciting!! I wanna do it so bad!... just need to find someone to tie me up..

Sex for me always takes the tone of control. I always want to either completely dominate or to give in entirely. There is no in-between for me. So I find being tied up to be a major turn on (but yeah, it can only be done with someone you trust).

I wouldn't do it. LOL, I'm way too paranoid and not that freaky. What if someone wanted to take one of my kidneys. LOL

sorry to veer off the subject, but what in the hell is a vacuum cube. and what is it used for? that looks really strange!

All that fantasy bullshit looks odd to me. And it looks like so much work. Going to the store, buying that shit and getting it home, setting it up, it's like making sex a full time job.

All that's needed are two willing naked boys....or maybe one that's not so willing and the other one a coercive dominant role player.

muchmorethanmuscle said....or maybe one that's not so willing and the other one a coercive dominant role player.

HOT!!! And what city can I find you at?

one guy i was with liked mild bondage..tieing to the bed posts at wrist and ankle..and it was fun as the one tied, or the one not tied...but i trusted him.

my boyfriend and i have done bondage couple of times..i put hooks in my basement ceiling and loosely tied his wrists to them with soft cloth. really turned us both on, but he had marks on his wrists for couple of days after, from his pulling during sexual excitement.

so, yeah, bondage can be hot....but not if the guy is going to physically hurt you, or possibly let you tied up for the cleaning lady to find the next morning...gotta have mutual respect and trust...

You should really trust the guy doing it. It can be dangerous. If they cut off circulation it could cause permanent damage.
I had a bad experience with a guy whom I thought I could trust, and I could, when he's sober. I didn't know he is a mean drunk.
I have the scar where he crushed his cigarette out into my left nipple to remind me of him.

Be careful with this.

Yeah, would definitely be safe... I've learned good ways to tie people down with still keeping good circulation from the crazy people we deal with on the ambulance. So hopefully it wouldn't ruin the mood if I were to have that little lesson first, hahaha!

That's terrible. But luckily it didn't get any worse.

Sober sex is the only way to go when it comes to fantasy type scenes.

I like being tied up, but ONLY with someone I know well and have been with for a while. Once, when I was about 20, my boyfriend tied me up while I was sleeping on my belly. I woke up to find him inside me, gently raping me while I strained at the ropes that had my arms and legs spread-eagle. I fell in love with him that night!
Wouldn't do it with someone I don't know, and I DEFINATELY draw the line at handcuffs. No way.

That is such a hot fantasy... I wanna meet someone like your boyfriend.

I am not into toys and bondage or S&M, but I have tied a girl up and a guy up before. Both lovers who were a bit routine, never with a stranger. I have not been
tied up, although I would have loved if the ones that I did it to would have reciprocated.

I did it spontaneously, once used clean shirts for each leg and hands, more comfortable, and left enough space for them to get out. Using the clean shirts seemed sexy and decadent. The other time, I just randomly tore 4 strips of the top sheet which seemed to really excite the person. It is not about penetration but just an exercise in relaxing- more caressing, tickling, massaging with hands and tongue- they already trusted me so there was no trust issues. I tied them up while they were on their back, did not do the eyes, so they could see what I was doing- which I think excited them most of all. It was still just "FUN CLEAN SEX". Doing it often would dull the excitement.

Stuff you do with a lover or someone you know real well. Then let the good times role. Grrrrrrr

jsttennis77 saidStuff you do with a lover or someone you know real well. Then let the good times role. Grrrrrrr

Fuck you hot little bastard. I think we've reached that point.

i only do light tying...i can untie myself if i want to...but i usually don't!hehehe

Alpha62667 said

jsttennis77 saidStuff you do with a lover or someone you know real well. Then let the good times role. Grrrrrrr

Fuck you hot little bastard. I think we've reached that point.

Oh man. LOL

always hot!

I love when my girlfriend ties me up and teases me alllllllllllll night.us So naughty

If you trust the guy, go for it. I've been practicing shibari (rope bondage) for a few years, and it's truly a very bonding experience (okay, so bad pun there...). If the top knows what he is doing, it will be a very safe, sane and consensual experience. How much have you discussed this with him? You should ask what a typical scene for him is like, from the very beginning (such as discussing terms), to play (what are some things you MIGHT expect him to do?), to afterplay (how long do you wait before talking to him about the experience? does he usually play more than once with his playmates?). If he is not able to talk in detail about it with you, he may not be as experienced as he says he is, and you may want to wait a while before playing with him in that way.

Light tying can make for a really frickin hot time. What I do is tie his hands together with a belt behind his head, or if you prefer, tie each hand to a bedpost. Light, nothing tight. The only point of tying for me is so that I take full control of the pleasure that's about to occur. Then you can do things like take him to the very edge and then leave him hanging... he'll beg like none other. It can go on for an hour, two... so hot!!

Finally did it... fucked by 2 tops. Very hot!

JaseinOC saidFinally did it... fucked by 2 tops. Very hot!

Your mother would be so proud.





LOL, sorry, I couldn't help it.

jhargraves saidI was completely in love with this fool and one night to be very different a few years back, tied his hands up and put a pillow over his face and slid down on it...it was a wild night!

Ooo... hadn't even thought much about tying up the top. Hmmm.. :-)

MMMMM... love this thread!

I love to control someone... or have someone totally control me. Whether it is rope, restraints or plastic wrap... it's all hot!

BigSETXjock saidMMMMM... love this thread!

I love to control someone... or have someone totally control me. Whether it is rope, restraints or plastic wrap... it's all hot!

Fuzzy pink handcuffs?

I'm so hard right now, lol

I've been verging on the whole bondage/dom thing with one of my fuck buddies. We're about to head to vegas for a weekend so I'm gonna go all out there. I'll let ya know how it goes.

lets just say he's gonna spend a fair amount of time tied up and servicing a few choice studs, lol...

nothing like being tied up and have a top work me over! Over have a top tied down spread eagle on a bed and ride is hot cock.

/bump, interesting topic!