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DOES DICK SIZE REALLY MATTER IN A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP!!!!
shay77 Posts: 1
Jun 20, 2008 3:31 AM GMT
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YES IT DOES TO A CERTAIN POINT. I MEAN NOBODY WANT A LITTLE TINY WINNY PETER TO BE HONEST.
jakebenson Posts: 701
Jun 20, 2008 3:49 AM GMT
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I'm COMPLETELY in the minority opinion when I say this, but dick size is least important to me. In fact I prefer average to slightly below average, and definitely far from thick. Whenever I date a guy and he's insecure about his small dick I'm like "stfu I love it and best part is I won't scream in pain if and when it goes up my ass." Small dicks make it easiest for me to become versatile. ;)
inuman Posts: 124
Jun 20, 2008 3:55 AM GMT
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How many times does this thing have to come up in a conversation in order for you to admit if your a size queen or not.

Personally size don't matter, it's how you use it that does matter. If you can't make the guy your dating or in a relationship with moan from shear pleasure well having a 8+ fat cock won't make up for it. Learn his "sweet" spots and also encourage and tease new spots, that way he'll go crazy over you, regardless of your pecker
polobutt Posts: 795
Jun 20, 2008 4:27 AM GMT
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I've always said that dick size doesn't really matter however I have (another) of my stories to share.

So I met this really hot guy a couple years back. Honestly, he is one of the hottest guys that I have ever seen. Body, smile, eyes, the whole package. He came up to me and introduced himself. I was blown away that a guy this hot would talk to me. We exchanged numbers and decided to get together.

We went out a few times and then one night I invited him back to my place.

An amazing kisser. The kisses were so intense that I hardly remember him stripping me as we were kissing.

Eventually I was laying back on my bed and he had me in his mouth. He was so amazing. My hands were all over him but while I was laying there naked, he still had his briefs on. I was caught up in this amazing bj he was giving me, his body next to mine, the whole thing, but thought, damn... I want to return this favor.

Eventually he took his undies off and I about died. The poor guy was no bigger than a raddish. Huge balls but this tiny little raddish. Erect it was MAYBE 1.5" and that maybe being generous on my part. I had no idea what to do with it. I couldn't find the thing.

So my answer to this is anything bigger than a raddish is great with me, but smaller than a raddish it just doesn't do anything for me. Sorry.

inuman Posts: 124
Jun 20, 2008 4:35 AM GMT
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HAHAHAHAHAHA

I fell off my chair reading this, I laughed so hard. Great story and sorry to hear about that guy.

Still funny though, thanks for sharing your rather detailed story with us polo
polobutt Posts: 795
Jun 20, 2008 4:47 AM GMT
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The poor guy...

I felt like a piece of shit cause I just had to tell him to leave.

I guess that I could have let him F me as I'm sure that I wouldn't have felt a thing.
jakebenson Posts: 701
Jun 20, 2008 7:56 AM GMT
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polobutt said
Eventually he took his undies off and I about died. The poor guy was no bigger than a raddish. Huge balls but this tiny little raddish. Erect it was MAYBE 1.5" and that maybe being generous on my part. I had no idea what to do with it. I couldn't find the thing.


I'll take him. At least I know he's a bottom.
metalxracr Posts: 445
Jun 20, 2008 9:11 AM GMT
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Wow, I never knew that came in sizes that small.

I had never experienced small ones, in fact all my encounters were pretty well endowed, and so I always said size was a bit of an issue, but...

I remember I had a mad crush on this one straight guy, who I thought was one of the hottest dudes I had ever known. Well, one girl tells him that I thought he was, "Fucking hot as hell".

He came up to me and confronted me I was about to make up so many excuses, but he just smiled and said he might be bisexual and he thought I was hot too. After some time we started kissing

Till this day, I don't think I've had as hot of a make out session! He stuck his hand down my pants, and well, when I got to him, he was small! below average small, but the girth was okay! I did not care at all though, you could not have pried, me off of this dude no way! Sex was fantastic too!

So in conclusion, size does not matter!

GQjock Posts: 3681
Jun 20, 2008 9:58 AM GMT
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In the long run? No it doesn't matter
as long as they are in the human-sized range

There's so much more that makes a man attractive
than dick-size

That's why it so ho-hum when a guy sends me a picture of his dick
it's like... Yeah, I figured you had one
Sedative Posts: 5407
Jun 20, 2008 12:12 PM GMT
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I've never seen a micropenis in my life, but you can't help but feel sorry for those who have it... damn. Isn't there some sort of surgery to correct that?

I'm average, and as I've said before, I prefer average with a little deviation upwards or downwards.

Too large scares me, too small makes me want to cry for the guy.
MunchingZombi... Posts: 2093
Jun 20, 2008 5:41 PM GMT
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The size of one's penis is inversely related to the size of the fonts one uses.
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Jun 20, 2008 6:37 PM GMT
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Honestly, for a husband it doesn't matter (although slightly above average is a +). For a fuckbuddy, it definitely matters. If I am gonna meet a guy for hot times, I'd better be walking funny.
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Jun 21, 2008 4:45 AM GMT
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It only matters to me if the guy is so small its not possible to stick in my ass, or so big its not possible to stick it in my ass. other than that, its all good to me, the person is more important.
Trevorr Posts: 3
Jun 21, 2008 6:51 AM GMT
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The size of a man's penis is so very important, I have a very nice thick member and have relinquished many guys for not measuring up, I have an expectation, " NINE or more-or-hit the-door, I know this sounds superficial, but if you are going to screw, why would you want to settle for a "radish" like that poor fuck in the above story??
Sedative Posts: 5407
Jun 21, 2008 9:36 AM GMT
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MunchingZombie saidThe size of one's penis is inversely related to the size of the fonts one uses.


Really?
SurrealLife Posts: 4382
Jun 21, 2008 1:28 PM GMT
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MunchingZombie saidThe size of one's penis is inversely related to the size of the fonts one uses.


As usual I am the exception to the rule!

Polobutt's story is very similar to one I had. The first thing I thought of was "they come in this size?" He was one of my early sexual experiences, and I thought all guys were at least 5 inches hard, didn't think they would come in pinky size!

I never found out if he was a bottom, but he was a pretty good drag queen (I saw him later at a gay bar).
MunchingZombi... Posts: 2093
Jun 21, 2008 2:08 PM GMT
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Sedative saidReally?


OMG! What is that eclipsing the sun? Why, it's sedative's mega-schlong!
Jackal69 Posts: 651
Jun 21, 2008 6:19 PM GMT
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Size only matter if you're insecure about what you've got.

That said, it's never been a concern of mine.
Paradigm Posts: 127
Jun 21, 2008 6:21 PM GMT
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I agree with jakebenson (well that plus I like him). I don't think it matters, size isn't everything when you get into a relationship; and if you're only with someone cause of their monster 13" cock than maybe you need to rethink your morals and ethics and where you are going in life.
rich1961 Posts: 1
Jun 21, 2008 6:27 PM GMT
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Who out there doesn't get turned on or take a long stare at a big one? But, in practice, it doesn't really matter, as long as you use what you got!
Timberoo Posts: 2804
Jun 21, 2008 10:28 PM GMT
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It's got to be big enough to get from him to me.
Caslon7000 Posts: 7933
Jun 21, 2008 10:52 PM GMT
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There is such a thing as too big.

I knew a guy with a mega cock...the poor fellow could rarely find anyone who would let him fuck him and guys (I know this was true for me) could hardly get their mouths around it and give him a good blowjob....but I still tried ...

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Jun 22, 2008 1:09 AM GMT
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It's like going to Subway.
You order a foot long because you think damm I can eat alot, then once you get started you find out that the 6inch would do, because now you have all this extra left over...

Size does not matter...
Sedative Posts: 5407
Jun 22, 2008 7:29 AM GMT
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MunchingZombie said

OMG! What is that eclipsing the sun? Why, it's sedative's mega-schlong!


Actually that's a stray pubic hair.
HotCrisis17 Posts: 3
Jun 23, 2008 4:30 AM GMT
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Penis size kinda matters to me. Guys who are really big like really enormous are just creepy, now guys who are really small are pathetic. I like guys who are around 7 or 8in.
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Jun 23, 2008 5:47 AM GMT
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I have thought this over and honestly size does matter to me in one area and that is how hard I want to get off! I am a top and have never been fucked, but when I'm fucking a guy with a big dick it really turns me on! I cum so much harder when the guy has a nice big cock and nuts! I haven't fucked that many guys. For instance, my neighbor kid (19) is totally hot, swimmers body, blonde hair, tight and ripped, tight fucking pink hole but with a tiny dick and I came harder with this not so hot guy last week that had a 9 inch cock! Go figure! So yes size does matter to me if I want to get off better! Don't get me wrong, I will fuck a cute guy with a small dick!
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Jun 23, 2008 5:53 AM GMT
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This is sound odd..I cant stand men who are too big.
Nor realy tiny, But Like If your average Im happy.
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Jun 24, 2008 2:32 AM GMT
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Honestly, if the guy was that fucking hot, I would of turned him over and fucked the shit out of him! We could always find another guy with a bigger dick to suck on! A bottom is a bottom, and we all know what bottoms are good for. TAKING THE DICK!
BerberKnight Posts: 31
Jun 24, 2008 12:49 PM GMT
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Size won't matter if no anal intercourse is to take place. Anal sex is, at the end of the day, an emulation of straight sex. Real man sex shouldn't involve intercourse as it demasculinizes the one who bottoms. Plus, the anus is not part of one's genitalia, as it is not a procreating organ. Add to it its alarmingly high disease transmission ability (anal cancer, etc) and you'll get the picture.

If you wanna be penetrated, which I don't recommend, go for small to medium sizes as too big is too dangerous for your health.
zakariahzol Posts: 824
Jun 24, 2008 1:26 PM GMT
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To bottom for a big , strong and long penis hit the prostate muscle and feel really good. It really frustrating to bottom for someone so short that it didnt hit it. I have been with a really big guy and it feel so satisfying that I feel so refreshed and satisfied after that. However most big dick guys have problem having a hard on due to the large amount of blood he must pump into his dick . A big semi erect , soft dick look really gross if you ask me.
tonyp321 Posts: 204
Jun 24, 2008 3:35 PM GMT
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shay77 saidYES IT DOES TO A CERTAIN POINT. I MEAN NOBODY WANT A LITTLE TINY WINNY PETER TO BE HONEST.


Not true I know some guys who prefer men who are small. Ive had my share of, how to put this nicely, under endowed men. I have also been with some very endowed men and I honestly prefer them in between and more favorable for girth rather than length.

My rule of thumb is if its more then a mouthful its a waste.
Jockbod48 Posts: 1486
Jun 24, 2008 4:27 PM GMT
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In college a water polo teammate had such a huge cock you just had to stare. It looked hard even when it wasn't. We hooked up a few times but I couldn't take it - more then an inch or so - then all I wanted was for him to take it out. It was so HUGE! This guy's cock showed through his pants and shorts - you couldn't miss it. During polo games, I don't know how he kept it in his speedo!
SurrealLife Posts: 4382
Jun 24, 2008 5:10 PM GMT
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Well jockbod48, remains me of a straight guy that I had a crush on in University. He once said his nickname on campus was "the stud". I laughed but then realized he was serious. I once saw him naked after we went swimming in the pool at his parent's condo. I think his nickname should have been "Secretariat" or "Seattle Slew". Hung like a horse was an appropriate term for him. Strange thing is he was not a big guy. Maybe 5 feet 10 inches tall and 155-160 pounds if he was working out, less if he wasn't.

I think when it gets that big it is almost a detrimant to good sex.
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Sep 03, 2008 6:17 PM GMT
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I usually prefer guys with average sized penises... especially if we're gonna tag team... guys with big dicks or really curved dicks are just difficult to deal with... spoils the fun...

But a big set of balls is always a winner.
nautilie7 Posts: 101
Sep 03, 2008 9:10 PM GMT
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jakebenson saidI'm COMPLETELY in the minority opinion when I say this, but dick size is least important to me. In fact I prefer average to slightly below average, and definitely far from thick. Whenever I date a guy and he's insecure about his small dick I'm like "stfu I love it and best part is I won't scream in pain if and when it goes up my ass." Small dicks make it easiest for me to become versatile. ;)


True true.. I'm so agree with you. I don't really like big dick.. it's just so hard to please..
nautilie7 Posts: 101
Sep 03, 2008 9:16 PM GMT
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polobutt saidThe poor guy...

I felt like a piece of shit cause I just had to tell him to leave.

I guess that I could have let him F me as I'm sure that I wouldn't have felt a thing.


Oh my god isn't that the extreme of extreme of rudeness.. You told him to leave after you saw his dick ?
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Sep 03, 2008 10:49 PM GMT
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Honestly, I think that penis size is one of those things that a lot of gays focus on too deeply. If penis size is one of the defining charateristics in someone that you are looking for, you are probably going to be way too shallow to be truly involved in a relationship. There are a lot of other factors involved in a relationship that are much more important. We could probably all have some form of sex with almost anyone that we come across, but that doesn't mean that we would be attracted to the person or even want to be near them. If you are going to be with someone, you have to be with that person and not their dick.

There are always extremes though. Obviously, it will take more work to find a way to have good sex with someone who you can barely get fingers around, just as it would be hard to do the same with someone who splits the walls of your rectum. I think it is nice as long as you can enjoy the person and feel good with them.

Besides, it's never cool to have a gaping asshole.
nautilie7 Posts: 101
Sep 03, 2008 11:28 PM GMT
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brandohsaurus saidHonestly, I think that penis size is one of those things that a lot of gays focus on too deeply. If penis size is one of the defining charateristics in someone that you are looking for, you are probably going to be way too shallow to be truly involved in a relationship. There are a lot of other factors involved in a relationship that are much more important. We could probably all have some form of sex with almost anyone that we come across, but that doesn't mean that we would be attracted to the person or even want to be near them. If you are going to be with someone, you have to be with that person and not their dick.

There are always extremes though. Obviously, it will take more work to find a way to have good sex with someone who you can barely get fingers around, just as it would be hard to do the same with someone who splits the walls of your rectum. I think it is nice as long as you can enjoy the person and feel good with them.

Besides, it's never cool to have a gaping asshole.


Call me shallow.. I usually judge a guy on how they kiss.. I really like wild and intense make out.. One day I dated a guy who was a terrible kisser and I just say to him "let's just be friend.. I don't think I can do this."
Ghen Posts: 471
Sep 03, 2008 11:33 PM GMT
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brandohsaurus said

Besides, it's never cool to have a gaping asshole.


Eww mental image!
chillz4thrill... Posts: 56
Sep 04, 2008 8:43 PM GMT
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It really all depends on what you like...and if your a bottom or not. I myself enjoy a large thick cock inside of me....but if my bf was small I would love him just the same and work with it.
gettoknowit Posts: 1042
Sep 04, 2008 9:30 PM GMT
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I'm really enthusiastic about deep throating and having a hung man stick his penis in my ass. Call it gay if you will. As far in the relationship. If it starts out a little less than my 8 inch preference thats okay. It's always nice to have the penis period though.
muchmorethanm... Posts: 2759
Sep 04, 2008 10:53 PM GMT
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marky25m saidI usually prefer guys with average sized penises... especially if we're gonna tag team... guys with big dicks or really curved dicks are just difficult to deal with... spoils the fun...

But a big set of balls is always a winner.



Don't you just love the pitter pattering sounds that they make as they slap your ass while you get jammed?
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Sep 05, 2008 12:28 PM GMT
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nautilie7 said
brandohsaurus saidHonestly, I think that penis size is one of those things that a lot of gays focus on too deeply. If penis size is one of the defining charateristics in someone that you are looking for, you are probably going to be way too shallow to be truly involved in a relationship. There are a lot of other factors involved in a relationship that are much more important. We could probably all have some form of sex with almost anyone that we come across, but that doesn't mean that we would be attracted to the person or even want to be near them. If you are going to be with someone, you have to be with that person and not their dick.

There are always extremes though. Obviously, it will take more work to find a way to have good sex with someone who you can barely get fingers around, just as it would be hard to do the same with someone who splits the walls of your rectum. I think it is nice as long as you can enjoy the person and feel good with them.

Besides, it's never cool to have a gaping asshole.


Call me shallow.. I usually judge a guy on how they kiss.. I really like wild and intense make out.. One day I dated a guy who was a terrible kisser and I just say to him "let's just be friend.. I don't think I can do this."


I've done the same thing. I don't hink you can really be into someone and not enjoy how they kiss you.
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Sep 05, 2008 12:29 PM GMT
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Ghen said
brandohsaurus said

Besides, it's never cool to have a gaping asshole.


Eww mental image!


I apologize, but you know it's true.
BodyWork4 Posts: 741
Sep 05, 2008 2:01 PM GMT
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I met a guy that was HUGE!!! I mean DAMN HUGE!
We messed around but it was limited play because, for me, it was just too damn scary to think about "taking" it.

And I met a guy years back we dated a couple times and he was teeny-tiny, just too damn teenie-tiny.

Somewhere in between please, the 5"-7" incher, yum
it does make a difference, but most important is the kiss...

A sorry kisser and it's over, I don't care what you're sportin
Arkguy84 Posts: 32
Sep 10, 2008 3:19 AM GMT
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JetsRule saidIt's like going to Subway.
You order a foot long because you think damm I can eat alot, then once you get started you find out that the 6inch would do, because now you have all this extra left over...

Size does not matter...


Um I am the odd one I guess. I can eat the foot long and still eat the chips too :-)
Size dose matter, if it's under average I am just not interested..
collegeswimmr Posts: 59
Sep 10, 2008 10:32 PM GMT
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fuck that shit, a big dick is important. I'm vers and I love a man with a big one who can also take it. I hate men who cant take it like men.

I've dated 'hung like a grape' before, and it lasted a long time, but the sex wasnt very good.

meanwhile, my last ex had 10in, but it only lasted 1 month. the sex was amazing though. go figure.

mmmarco Posts: 8
Sep 13, 2008 10:05 PM GMT
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average is great. too big is hard to take care of. it dont matter to me as long as i still get a hard on when i see him naked but theres this one guy i met a few years back and he was HUGE. like ridiculous.

a cock is a cock as long as its good to play with. too much IS too much, but i wouldnt wnna be sucking an eff'n tictac either

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