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WTF! I got confirmation that HE went to undergo circumcision a couple of months back (all the more reason he's refused sex with me when I begged for it)!
Shit, he's actually done it. Now that he's OUT and with another boylet, he's actually DOING EVERYTHING I SUGGESTED ONE BY ONE when we were still together and always ended up arguing about!!!
Of course, like every other Filipino (in general), we like our men to be cut (in fact it's our unwritten cultural "rite of passage" from kid to adulthood). Now this new bf is the one reaping all the benefits of everything I worked so hard for!!!
If and if he buys a Peugot convertible in the next few months, all of hell will break loose.
ALL THESE MAKE-OVER TIPS FROM ME THAT MADE HIM A BETTER MAN IN THE PROCESS SHOULD BE CREDITED TO MY ACCOUNT!!! FORGET THE SEX, I COULD USE SOME CASH RIGHT NOW. THAT FUCKER!!!

Do you think he's doing these on purpose to piss me off? Somehow I feel that these radical changes still have something to do with me which I feel entitled for. Zim needs enlightenment.

Um, Zim, maybe some good time with a counselor might be in order.

HndsmKansan saidUm, Zim, maybe some good time with a counselor might be in order.

but that's what you're all here for, yeah? besides what do i pay for counselling? my pubic hair? (as what my mum would say, really.)

zimatar said[quote][cite]HndsmKansan said[/cite]Um, Zim, maybe some good time with a counselor might be in order.

but that's what you're all here for, yeah? besides what do i pay for counselling? my pubic hair? (as what my mum would say, really.)[/quote]


Hey Zim, I will give you some counseling for free

Now, relax and tell me why you even give a shit what your ex does? If he is going to treat you badly, you are better off without him. Find a man that deserves you. Save up and buy the Peugeot convertible yourself. Drive past his house and rev it up so he notices, and then give him the finger

Have I helped


Mike

MikePhil said
Hey Zim, I will give you some counseling for free
Now, relax and tell me why you even give a shit what your ex does? If he is going to treat you badly, you are better off without him. Find a man that deserves you. Save up and buy the Peugeot convertible yourself. Drive past his house and rev it up so he notices, and then give him the finger
Have I helped
Mike

Have you helped? Let's just say you really should give your counselling for free.

Seriously zim, forget about the bastard. The way he can find another filipino to fill in your shoes just like that speaks volumes about his character.

Anak ng mamao na ingrata!

!!!

My tagalog swear words vocabulary is vastly limited *sigh* so...

Pisti ngiyating ngyawa deputang lecheng pakshit na irihis na tontong gago na way otin na... !!!!

LOL. Hope that helps! (I know they're redundant but hell, you get the point about what I think of him, LOL)

AAAAAAAAmen. lol

kainis.

zimatar said[quote][cite]MikePhil said[/cite]
Hey Zim, I will give you some counseling for free
Now, relax and tell me why you even give a shit what your ex does? If he is going to treat you badly, you are better off without him. Find a man that deserves you. Save up and buy the Peugeot convertible yourself. Drive past his house and rev it up so he notices, and then give him the finger
Have I helped
Mike

Have you helped? Let's just say you really should give your counselling for free. [/quote]

Awww, poor Zimmy. C'mon forget about him...

Zim,

People are not projects and your project management or marketing skill applied to them does not mean you own them or any bit of their progress. You're a smart guy, and you know this already.

Take that energy and love for progress and turn it inward. Improve yourself, inside and out. Tackle those issues making you feel insecure and become an even more beautiful person.

Forget the ex, it's over. Need money? Make and SAVE your own. Become what you crave and you'll be much happier than if "caught" a man who possesses the qualities you want for yourself.

That will be $25US -- my 1/4 hour fee. ;)

-Jon

Ex for a reason ZIm, ex for a reason..

Plenty more Fish in Di Sea Man!!!!!!!!!!!

He misses you and wishes the newbie was you and he wishes that he was mature enough to tell you these things, but he's not and never will be. So instead of telling you, he'll let you continue on with your life and show you just how important you are to him, especially when he gets the Peugot. (Which he'll expect you to destroy, all because he loved you and always will.)

(I think that's what you wanted to hear. Let me know if it's not and I'll modify it. I'm usually good at helping folks bash their exes. Much better than what a friend of mine once told me, "Get over him, because he's over you." I mean, really, what kind of advise is that. Just because our hearts know it, our friends don't have to say it, right. Psshh, "Get over him because he's over you." How insensitive.)

I can see why you are so upset but this is entirely your problem. I could say forget about him but apparently you are not ready for that. You are obsessing over your ex and watching ever single move he makes with this new partner. Maybe he doesn't even realize that he is doing everything you suggested while you two were together. Now that he is "Out" he's more confident to do these things. Just look at it has a good deed done for both him and his new partner and let it go.

Please don't be offended by this but since you threw this out here I'm going to be honest. This is friendly advice: It's time for you to grow up.

If the only things to a relationship or the making of a man is a cut cock and a cool car then you're selling yourself way short.

You're elevating trivial bullshit that just doesn't matter in order to sustain a healthy relationship and define a man.

There were definite reasons your relationship came to a close with this guy and I'm betting it had nothing to do with foreskin and an automobile. None of which would have saved your defunct relationship.

I don't know where you established that a cut cock and "things" make a guy a better man but you need to let that go. If you want to be mad at someone be pissed off at the asswipe that suckered you into believing any of that.

Is he doing this to piss you off? If he were wouldn't you just consider that pathetic? And since it would be pathetic then why would you even give a damn about someone like that? Don't you find it comical in a sad way that maybe, just maybe, you suckered him into paying for a surgical procedure and potentially handing out a large sum of money on a vehicle thinking he will somehow mysteriously morph into a better man? Only to find out after blowing all that money he's still the same fool he was before but now in debt? You might find a little thrill in that but again in that whole thing also see how pathetic he is.

Don't forget, everything after a period of time loses it's newness. The cut cock becomes just another cut cock and if there is a new auto the new smell fades. After that you are forced to look at the whole picture and if that whole picture wasn't appealing before chances are it will remain unappealing. Move on buddy!

zimatar said...like every other Filipino (in general), we like our men to be cut"

The things you learn online.

Let me get this straight..

You told him to get a circumcision and buy a Peugot convertible as "MAKE-OVER TIPS" in order to make "HIM A BETTER MAN"...

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...

Wow

Zim, vent all you want, baby, you sexy son of a bitch...

I say that because I know you like it.

Zim, I'll buy you one. Tell me the one you like best

I'm such a tart. I just turned thirty-fwhore.

zimatar saidHE went to undergo circumcision a couple of months back

Major *ouch* to the snipitude! People never cease to amaze me!

Squarejaw saidThe things you learn online.

For the record I don't care. LOL But yeah, it's a rite of passage. Uncut men are actually made fun of here.

Sedative said[quote][cite]Squarejaw said[/cite]The things you learn online.

For the record I don't care. LOL But yeah, it's a rite of passage. Uncut men are actually made fun of here.[/quote]

MikePhil said

ROFL omigod!

I echo Squarejaw, the things you learn online!

Mike that is great advice, but he would have to work for the money to buy the car! Work for the money to buy your own-anything. You will appreciate it more.

I agree with ITjock on this one. TTennis77 actually took the time to add great advice.

I bet your ex had other reasons for leaving, hell I'd bank on it.

MikemikeMike saidI bet your ex had other reasons for leaving, hell I'd bank on it.

For one, he could not handle media pressure when he's out with me.

Oh the pressure of being me.

Zimatar: The termination of any relationship has it's pain.

You are experiencing a lot of anger - which is your right - vent your anger constructively - by setting goals for your OWN life not his.

You cannot CONTROL what "he" of "others" do in their lives, BUT you can control the direction of yours!

Make your direction(s)/goals attainable/realistic. That will empower you to move on with YOUR life and before you know it, your anger towards "him" will not seem as severe!

All the BEST

Sedative said[quote][cite]MikePhil said[/cite]

ROFL omigod!

I echo Squarejaw, the things you learn online! [/quote]



What

I'm naturally red faced Means nothing

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What

I'm naturally red faced Means nothing

Okay.

Sorry but circumcision of any kind is a barbaric, outdated backward thought and procedure.

It should be stopped the world over. Nothing short of barbaric.

I don't know you and I've never even talked to you, however if someone kept telling me that they didn't like my dick the way it was, I wouldn't be with them either. Even if I wished it was different, a bf constatnly pointing it out would bother me to no end.

Cut/un cut... really who cares? I'm cut but my bf isn't and I love it! So much fun to chew on. But he is also very clean.

I lurve this thread

All I can say is...

Kay, Sarah, Sarah

fandjd saidAll I can say is...
Kay, Sarah, Sarah

Oh bless, you got the wisdom of a latin princess!